ronkebp:

Nope, they obviously don't.

they

We babes beta run as fast as cheetah mehn

@ poster. r u a love peddler? if u were a guy, who would u depend on 4 money; ur girlfriend?

Dyt:

Emmatok
so u mean u dont give your so called gfs gifts
no choc,no tips,nottin?
R your fingers so closed lyk dat horse at onikan?

Give  her tips for what?

She no get family?

Look i help my people by Paying school fees, rents, sponsorships e.t.c

But when it comes to relationship(GF/BF), it is no no.

If i travel i buy her lace Lingerie and shoes, but no money.

If she is not satisfied, i show the way out.

Women no dey finish for market.

I don't even have the time for women these days so busy.

^ smh 4 u

@Poster I have read your text and I understand your situation. And I know for you to have wished your BF assist you shows that there is no financial assistance coming from both parents/relative and friends. This is what you 'll do to increase your income.

Do you know how to make moi-moi (beans puddy)? Go to any provision shops around and ask for their concept to supply them with moi-moi. Make sure you use foil for packaging and add boiled egg into it. you can as well supply to the stores within the school you attain.

Think of supplying chin-chin, meat pie, zobo, soya milk, to stores, or workshop etc. sell recharge cards while in office or in school. This trade do not need much money to start it and you stand to gain more profit.

As for your BF, i 'll advice you to pretend as if he is not existing and forge ahead with your life.

Lovedgal,
             have some good old  fashioned female pride.if u have sme restraint,very soon he will beg to buy something for you.but if u begin by telling him ur life story then have it ur  way but remember that the hand of the giver will always be on top.

@poster, you are very s*t*u*p*i*d girl.So because he claims to love you, you are now his responsibility.Is he your father? You expect him to be paying you for loving you, you must be an i*d*i*o*t . Are you rendering him any service? You must be one of this girls that think that their p*u*s*s*y is their greatest asset,you don't have any brains, that is why you can't get a good paying job.P*u*s*s*y hole!

ypad:

@Poster I have read your text and I understand your situation. And I know for you to have wished your BF assist you shows that there is no financial assistance coming from both parents/relative and friends. This is what you 'll do to increase your income.

Do you know how to make moi-moi (beans puddy)? Go to any provision shops around and ask for their concept to supply them with moi-moi. Make sure you use foil for packaging and add boiled egg into it. you can as well supply to the stores within the school you attain.

Think of supplying chin-chin, meat pie, zobo, soya milk, to stores, or workshop etc. sell recharge cards while in office or in school. This trade do not need much money to start it and you stand to gain more profit.

As for your BF, i 'll advice you to pretend as if he is not existing and forge ahead with your life.  

hmmmmmm. . . . . . .  ;

Guys for the fact this thread has generated 8pages in no time is sth worrying us all.I don't even have a gf but a forkmate. I got into a relationship with a gurl last January, within sometimes, school fees (papa and elder bros brought half) and dad said get the rest anyway. I gave some coins but that continued and asked myself what the hell is this.

I gave and if not yet on the phone, I get how much question.When withdrawn, no thank you.She later said even her mum knows her with that. That na pesin wey i for like marry. Guys I ran oh! She will only demand and call u names and when u figure u did the dad's jobs, u cld kill her or she kills you. Why do women always have different definitions to things?

Am in a work and learn situation and women who are married always complain about everything. What about the equality talk? Do u know what men go thru b4 they come popping the question? Little guys hit the sack b4 40th birthday. I want a trained woman that will give birth to a child and she must work oh.One good way to make her see things nicely and appreciate every every.

Go get a job. That someone loves u doesn't make him ur banker. Or are prostituting urself to him? Why does he have to pay u?

@WaltherPPK,

did you fall and bump your head on your way to your computer? You are silly for not reading all the comments before ranting like a hungry hyena here.

It is funny coz most of these guys coming here to vent their anger are being used as atm machines in reality by their gfs and cannot say pimmmm!! I do not see my boyfriend as a money bag and don't ask him for money,

WaltherPPK:

@poster, you are very s*t*u*p*i*d girl.So because he claims to love you, you are now his responsibility.Is he your father? You expect him to be paying you for loving you, you must be an i*d*i*o*t . Are you rendering him any service? You must be one of this girls that think that their p*u*s*s*y is their greatest asset,you don't have any brains, that is why you can't get a good paying job.P*u*s*s*y hole!

That what they say.U said u love me.

@ Ronke, reading through all your comment here it shows you are nothing but a gold digger. I'm not sure you are married yet and with the way you are going, you may likely end up being the 4th wife of one OLD UGLY Alhaji cos No guy in his right sense of mind will want to waste his hard earn money on one yeye gurl who you are not even sure you will get married to. IMO, I believe no girl will even want to get married to a spendthrift, that explain why the OP is still dying for the "stingy" guy despite him not throwing money around. If its all about the sex that you have to offer, then you can go to hell with your toto. FYI, sex is very cheap this days cos with N500 you can easily let go of the load if you are a sex freak.
The worse part of it is that its this same gurl that will be calling the guys maga while gisting with her frnds.

My dear poster,e b lyk say u dey stingy wit u atm slot.giv d guy congo make e shine jo

ferdiii:

Guys for the fact this thread has generated 8pages in no time is sth worrying us all.I don't even have a gf but a forkmate. I got into a relationship with a gurl last January, within sometimes, school fees (papa and elder bros brought half) and dad said get the rest anyway. I gave some coins but that continued and asked myself what the hell is this.

I gave and if not yet on the phone, I get how much question.When withdrawn, no thank you.She later said even her mum knows her with that. That na pesin wey i for like marry. Guys I ran oh! She will only demand and call u names and when u figure u did the dad's jobs, u cld kill her or she kills you. Why do women always have different definitions to things?

Am in a work and learn situation and women who are married always complain about everything. What about the equality talk? Do u know what men go thru b4 they come popping the question? Little guys hit the sack b4 40th birthday. I want a trained woman that will give birth to a child and she must work oh.One good way to make her see things nicely and appreciate every every.

Women only talk about equity when they want something.

The irony is that a women are more selfish, you hardily see a woman buy or give her friends anything.

They always want to collect.

This is crazy ish!
I think most of y'all are just misunderstanding the OP,  I mean what r we human beings for if we can't help each other in times of need. As her bf it should be genuinely in his heart to care for his gf in everyway he can (if he can). He can't just watch someone he claims to truly love suffer when he's in a position to help. Its not like she's goin to him beggin him everyday, but occasional gifts and suprises go a long way to making a relationship solid. It shows that u always have ur partner in mind and ur willing to do little things to make ha happy. It doesn't mean she's a gold digger or anyfin.

@op, I fink u should tell him how u feel. I mean, if he's really ur bf u guys have to be open to each other. Tell him plainly what ur opinion is and see how he reacts. Don't be too quick to judge him though.

^ oh my
kisses 2 u
dis s a real man

@poster, you don't have any right to call the guy 'stingy', it is not his fault that you were born into a poverty stricken family.

@op,maybe u shud consider getting him gifts too once in a while. It'll be cool to take d initiative.

IbroSaunks:

This is crazy ish!
I think most of y'all are just misunderstanding the OP,  I mean what r we human beings for if we can't help each other in times of need. As her bf it should be genuinely in his heart to care for his gf in everyway he can (if he can). He can't just watch someone he claims to truly love suffer when he's in a position to help. Its not like she's goin to him beggin him everyday, but occasional gifts and suprises go a long way to making a relationship solid. It shows that u always have your partner in mind and your willing to do little things to make ha happy. It doesn't mean she's a gold digger or anyfin.

@op, I fink u should tell him how u feel. I mean, if he's really your bf u guys have to be open to each other. Tell him plainly what your opinion is and see how he reacts. Don't be too quick to judge him though.

Does she say she wants surprises? She want money for rent, feeding money, Since the guy has made the mistake to ask her out he must suffer and carry her burden

Ask wetin she don ever give the guy?

How come some people no dey shame to collect from ppl, To collect anything from anyone aside my parents dey always do me one kain sef.

I guess not all human are equal, If my sister is going to tax her bf or leech on any guy I would scold her badly.

MY sister once told me her BF who lives in the US offered to pay her application fee, I told her to decline that I would pay WE ARE NOT A FAMILY OF BEGGARS, WE HAVE SHAME IN OUR FAMILY

@Poster,
I no fit  come back to naija today to pay for any girl. the instinct has changed. Here in Europe an outing means I pay for mine and u my mate/GF/friend who ever she is pays for hers. This keeps the respect and makes the true relationship glitter.  One of the ugly sides of our culture is the issue of a lady believing to get financial aid from a guy she is going out with or the feeling the she is giving out some gifts/favour to a guy if they go to bed. I can't be in for such anymore. I hope to be in naija two weeks ad we shall see how the girls play out my way.
c yaa

dayokanu:

Does she say she wants surprises? She want money for rent, feeding money, Since the guy has made the mistake to ask her out he must suffer and carry her burden

Ask wetin she don ever give the guy?

How come some people no dey shame to collect from ppl, To collect anything from anyone aside my parents dey always do me one kain sef.

I guess not all human are equal, If my sister is going to tax her bf or leech on any guy I would scold her badly.

MY sister once told me her BF who lives in the US offered to pay her application fee, I told her to decline that I would pay WE ARE NOT A FAMILY OF BEGGARS, WE HAVE SHAME IN OUR FAMILY

Naah man, she has said many times that she supports haself and she doesn't ask him for dough, and when she said rent I fink she was only siting an example, I fink peeps r just misunderstanding ha,

^ ha
dont mind dem
dey v fish brain

@Ibrosaunks, I can see you are her advocate and you understand her very well.pls ask her what gift she has ever given the guy.

Dyt:

^ ha
dont mind dem
dey v fish brain

fish brain for wia. . . . .

the girl didnt ask the guy for the one millionth time GUYS ARE NOT MIND READERS

thanks!!! ibrosaunks!! yes, I have surprised him with gifts a few times, and this is not to say I expect him to return the favour because I did, It is just to support when I really need the help. It has been his response to when I talk of how things are tight at this time and he responds wishing me luck, him helping me now would not give me the yardstick to make that gesture a constant because he loves me, as some people have said here that if he starts, he will continue, I won't necessarily need help next month just because I am in a tight situation now. I have mentioned more than once that I am not one to constantly depend on a guy but 97% of the guys here  turn a blind eye to this and are just venting out their anger because other girls have used them as atm machines.

lovedgal:

thanks!!! ibrosaunks!! yes, I have surprised him with gifts a few times, and this is not to say I expect him to return the favour because I did,  It is just to support when I really need the help. It has been his response to when I talk of how things are tight at this time and he responds wishing me luck,  him helping me now would not give me the yardstick to make that gesture a constant because he loves me,  as some people have said here that if he starts, he will continue,  I won't necessarily need help next month just because I am in a tight situation now. I have mentioned more than once that I am not one to constantly depend on a guy but 97% of the guys here  turn a blind eye to this and are just venting out their anger because other girls have used them as atm machines.

i understand that and dats why i said ask him or talk to him

are you saying this guy has never given you anything

since you have been going out with him

@r231,

he dotes me with plenty love, which I like, I know you have been saying that I ask, but the words are just heavy for me,

lovedgal:

@r231,

he dotes me with plenty love, which I like, I know you have been saying that I ask, but the words are just heavy for me,

he is your boyfriend so you should be able to confide in him

especially when you are planning to marry him

Lovedgal
listen 2 ursef
mimickin er
he dotes me wit lots of love
does dat show ow much he cares?
U blinded by d tym he sillily gives u
na dont tell me u gettin dumb
u dont v ask a man u claim loves u dis much 4 anyth
ur pain shld b his pain
so u sad n den he cms u stupidly blush
save replyin ere
tell him wat u feel
tell him u nid sm moni

Dyt:

Lovedgal
tell him wat u feel
[size=13pt]tell him u nid sm moni[/size]

This Dyt is evidently something else!