I m
i know
dis babe s gettin 2 piss me
stop replyin on ere n 4kn tell him wat u feel
NLers cant help dey ll jst worsen ur dead case
4kn blow up 2 him

ok dyt, I will brave it up and talk to him.

WaltherPPK:

@Ibrosaunks, I can see you are her advocate and you understand her very well.pls ask her what gift she has ever given the guy.

Well i guess she just answered that.
@op, yw. What I mean is, don't ask him for money, at least not yet. but tell him he's not proactive enough in suprisin u wiv stuffs and all. Some fellas can b rather oblivious of stuff like that. Maybe u need to 'teach' some ish about relationships, but don't explicitly ask him, at least before doing that,

Erm Lovedgal
dont tell him he s nt surprisin u enuf o
tell him staright
lyk hit d damn nail on d head
y wld u go nude wit a guy u nt free wit?
Tell him ur mind
lyk baby
u know things r quite hard 4 me now
i v dis n i nid dis 2 mk it up
shikena
n if he doesnt den blv me gal he s nottin more dan a lost elephant
tell him i said dat

Dyt:

Erm Lovedgal
dont tell him he s nt surprisin u enuf o
tell him staright
lyk hit d damn nail on d head
y wld u go Unclad wit a guy u nt free wit?
Tell him your mind
lyk baby
u know things r quite hard 4 me now
i v dis n i nid dis 2 mk it up
shikena
n if he doesnt den blv me gal he s nottin more dan a lost elephant
tell him i said dat

hello dyt? love ur profile pix.

Wow, no wonder why I'm still a 4uck buddy.

Relax101:

hello dyt? love your profile pix.

you get money

^ help me ask him
Erm Relax bro
hp u nt stingy as d Ops bf
i lyk men who can spend dere lyf savings on my big fat assss

In developed countries girls who love you will tell you I don't need your money but your love and tender care. When you try that to Nigerian girls they are going to turn you into their current accounts. Why are our girls so mentally slow in this area? Sorry for using that word! I didn't mean to hurt anybody feelings.

r231:

you get money

Lol, Money no be problem na,

Dyt:

^ help me ask him
Erm Relax bro
hp u nt stingy as d Ops bf
i lyk men who can spend dere lyf savings on my big fat assss

I'm not stingy o.
Hw u dey?

all4naija:

In developed countries girls who love you will tell you I don't need your money but your love and tender care. When you try that to Nigerian girls they are going to turn you into there current accounts. Why are our girls so mentally slow in this area? Sorry for using that word! I didn't mean to hurt anybody feelings.

And they will claim they are giving you sex, as if it is not mutual.

M gd bobo mi
.
.

erm All4naija
u c where u dont v brains
ow cld u claim 2 love n care 4 sm1 witout gifts n surprises huh?
Smh
.
Emmatok
if we dont give u sex
u all run down ur tiny pins ere sayin my gf s stingy wit punny abi?

and yet, many guys are quick to go home to get a wife, when most gals over there have "parasites tendencies" (as we can see on this thread). i do feel sorry for the guy who will end up with these lot.

Ronkebp wrote:

a man that cannot provide for his gal, should go and sit down first,
when he has made enough money for him to throw around he should come back and have her.

imagine?! your hard earn wealth thrown around as if it has NO VALUE!!!! i guess in her world, poor men have NO RIGHT to date and should be single forever?!
a rich man who throw his money around will eventually become a POOR MAN and when he does, that goldigging parasite he was so eager to "splash on" will quickly disappear.

if the money is the only attraction then all of these girls are simply very expensive ASHEWOS pretending to be GFs.
sad indeed!

^^^ I can see with my korokoro eyes.
Where u stay?

Dyt:

M gd bobo mi
.
.

erm All4naija
u c where u dont v brains
ow cld u claim 2 love n care 4 sm1 witout gifts n surprises huh?
Smh
.
Emmatok
if we dont give u sex
u all run down your tiny pins ere sayin my gf s stingy wit punny abi?

Dyt:

M gd bobo mi
.
.

erm All4naija
u c where u dont v brains
ow cld u claim 2 love n care 4 sm1 witout gifts n surprises huh?
Smh
.
Emmatok
if we dont give u sex
u all run down your tiny pins ere sayin my gf s stingy wit punny abi?

Well you know that men can always get sex if they want.

But sex btw BF and GF is supposed to be mutual.

Which means both them(BF and GF) are enjoying it.

Abi, women no dey enjoy sex? So why claim u give us sex.

Dyt:

M gd bobo mi
.
.

erm All4naija
u c where u dont v brains
ow cld u claim 2 love n care 4 sm1 witout gifts n surprises huh?
Smh
.
Emmatok
if we dont give u sex
u all run down your tiny pins ere sayin my gf s stingy wit punny abi?

Though I don't understand you clearly, I am in a relationship! The truth is that you are in that class of girls, after trying to comprehend what you are alluding to, which is giving money as being caring and loving. It is far from that in developed countries - believe me money can't buy you love neither can it buy you happiness. Sometimes it causes more trouble in a relationship than anything else. Learn to love and take responsibility for yourself.

Its such a pity dat sm of ow men thinks awkwardly
i smh 4 d babes dat ll call dese field of grasshoppers husband
.
Erm Relax i stay everywhere o
i b lyk wind
.
Emmatox
gd point
so i c no reason y u cant spend on dat gal u v d mutual thing wit
ll it b cool c dat gal u v d mutual thing wit sad?
Cmon think guys
its nt all abt d dough
bt lil smtyms mks u real men
i m very independent bt i wont tolerate a stingy negro
.
I rili dont give a hoot wat any negro on ere thinks of me
i love moni*lyk u all stony adores sexx*
it mks d world go round
i wont tk love n care witout it

MRbrownJAY:

and yet, many guys are quick to go home to get a wife, when most gals over there have "parasites tendencies" (as we can see on this thread). i do feel sorry for the guy who will end up with these lot.

Ronkebp wrote:

imagine?! your hard earn wealth thrown around as if it has NO VALUE!!!! i guess in her world, poor men have NO RIGHT to date and should be single forever?!
a rich man who throw his money around will eventually become a POOR MAN and when he does, that goldigging parasite he was so eager to "splash on" will quickly disappear.

if the money is the only attraction then all of these girls are simply very expensive ASHEWOS pretending to be GFs.
sad indeed!

Tell them my brov,

ASHEWOS and Escorts, are even cheaper than some GFs.

Cos Escorts will always give what you want, when she sees money.

But these GFs will start claiming Virgins after chopping you.

Dyt:

Its such a pity dat sm of ow men thinks awkwardly
i smh 4 d babes dat ll call dese field of grasshoppers husband
.
Erm Relax i stay everywhere o
i b lyk wind
.
Emmatox
gd point
so i c no reason y u cant spend on dat gal u v d mutual thing wit
ll it b cool c dat gal u v d mutual thing wit sad?
Cmon think guys
its nt all abt d dough
bt lil smtyms mks u real men
i m very independent bt i wont tolerate a stingy negro

hmmmmm dyt is dis really you or you hv been hijacked cus i cant understand what you have been saying for the past hour

all4naija:

In developed countries girls who love you will tell you I don't need your money but your love and tender care. When you try that to Nigerian girls they are going to turn you into their current accounts. Why are our girls so mentally slow in this area? Sorry for using that word! I didn't mean to hurt anybody feelings.

This is NOT COMPLETELY TRUE at all.

I think that in underdeveloped countries the NEEDS ARE MUCH GREATER - because it isn't just about recharge cards and BB's - its about water,electricity, food, healthcare, etc.  So the girls are taking care of their basic needs and want the cosmetic from the guys.

Whereas in developed countries all of the basics are met by the country's infrastructure custodians such as Commissions set up to take care of providing the basic needs and social service agencies that care for those needs for the poverty stricken residents who then can take their own money and buy their own cosmetics such as cell phones and recharge cards out of their own pockets and don't need their boyfriends to provide those items for them.

However - the same golddiggers are here in the U.S. and our golddiggers over here want more than your golddiggers over there - our golddiggers want designer clothes, designer purses, gold, diamonds, lump sums of money, homes, cars which cost wayyyyy more than recharge cards and BlackBerry phones.

Come on over here and you will see those women on every corner and even more so now that there is a recession and alot of them are out of work.  Don't be so quick to knock Nigerian women whose needs ARE FAR BELOW the needs of women in the U.S. who are quick to abuse the men over here as well but at the tune of much more money and then kick them to the curb and divorce them and take the money and run.  That is why alot of men go back home to get wives from over seas.

You need to start uplifting your women instead of putting them down.  I believe that overall the jobs in the U.S. pay more than the jobs in Nigeria so the men make less in that area unless they work for an oil company - so the men complain more because it is harder to bring larger salaries to afford the BB or the constant requests for money.  A vicious cycle it seems to be.

I weep for everyone caught up in the BS.

Dyt:

Its such a pity dat sm of ow men thinks awkwardly
i smh 4 d babes dat ll call dese field of grasshoppers husband
.
Erm Relax i stay everywhere o
i b lyk wind
.
Emmatox
gd point
so i c no reason y u cant spend on dat gal u v d mutual thing wit
ll it b cool c dat gal u v d mutual thing wit sad?
Cmon think guys
its nt all abt d dough
bt lil smtyms mks u real men
i m very independent bt i wont tolerate a stingy negro

Abegi , is SEX a compensation for collecting money?

When you can get SEX elsewhere.

Dyt:

Its such a pity dat sm of ow men thinks awkwardly
i smh 4 d babes dat ll call dese field of grasshoppers husband
.
Erm Relax i stay everywhere o
i b lyk wind
.
Emmatox
gd point
so i c no reason y u cant spend on dat gal u v d mutual thing wit
ll it b cool c dat gal u v d mutual thing wit sad?
Cmon think guys
its nt all abt d dough
bt lil smtyms mks u real men
i m very independent bt i wont tolerate a stingy negro
.
I rili dont give a hoot wat any negro on ere thinks of me
i love moni*lyk u all stony adores sexx*
it mks d world go round
i wont tk love n care witout it

I understand, I no wan disturb the thread.
Can we have a chat somewhere else?

Dyt:

Its such a pity dat sm of ow men thinks awkwardly
i smh 4 d babes dat ll call dese field of grasshoppers husband
.
Erm Relax i stay everywhere o
i b lyk wind
.
Emmatox
gd point
so i c no reason y u cant spend on dat gal u v d mutual thing wit
ll it b cool c dat gal u v d mutual thing wit sad?
Cmon think guys
its nt all abt d dough
bt lil smtyms mks u real men
i m very independent bt i wont tolerate a stingy negro
.
I rili dont give a hoot wat any negro on ere thinks of me
i love moni*lyk u all stony adores sexx*
it mks d world go round
i wont tk love n care witout it

Sex is in exchange for money just like those who hang out in brothels say

Shy-One:

This is NOT COMPLETELY TRUE at all.

I think that in underdeveloped countries the NEEDS ARE MUCH GREATER - because it isn't just about recharge cards and BB's - its about water,electricity, food, healthcare, etc.  So the girls are taking care of their basic needs and want the cosmetic from the guys.

Whereas in developed countries all of the basics are met by the country's infrastructure custodians such as Commissions set up to take care of providing the basic needs and social service agencies that care for those needs for the poverty stricken residents who then can take their own money and buy their own cosmetics such as cell phones and recharge cards out of their own pockets and don't need their boyfriends to provide those items for them.

However - the same golddiggers are here in the U.S. and our golddiggers over here want more than your golddiggers over there - our golddiggers want designer clothes, designer purses, gold, diamonds, lump sums of money, homes, cars which cost wayyyyy more than recharge cards and BlackBerry phones.

Come on over here and you will see those women on every corner and even more so now that there is a recession and alot of them are out of work.  Don't be so quick to knock Nigerian women whose needs ARE FAR BELOW the needs of women in the U.S. who are quick to abuse the men over here as well but at the tune of much more money and then kick them to the curb and divorce them and take the money and run.  That is why alot of men go back home to get wives from over seas.

You need to start uplifting your women instead of putting them down.  I believe that overall the jobs in the U.S. pay more than the jobs in Nigeria so the men make less in that area unless they work for an oil company - so the men complain more because it is harder to bring larger salaries to afford the BB or the constant requests for money.  A vicious cycle it seems to be.

I weep for everyone caught up in the BS.

If the men can work for their money, Why cant the girls also use their brains to work for their own money instead of trading their pucci for cash

All this talk! talk!!, if you don't have the money to spend, keep your longilanga, to yourselves and find a chic you can have that will not stress you, it is simple, go for your size and let those that have money, 'make it rain' on dem ladies abeg.[tt][/tt]

Lyk i said earlier
DYT doesnt care wateva u think or call me
since u cant read n understand my piece
nt 4 d dumbs tho
.
Uncle Segun
smtyms it gets so bad dat u expect sm1 close 2 u understand ur feelings n wat u goin thru
exactly dis OPs points
.
.
Relax
drop ur mail

claremont:

In UK, Europe, USA;
Love= Mutual respect, sharing, friendship, emotional connection e.t.c.

In Nigeria;
Love= Money, money, money.

Have we been accursed by the gods?! Why have the gods forsaken us?!

what are they sharing?? bed or what??

@ Dayo

First of all - nobody is saying to trade puci for money - alot of the guys are taking it to that level.

If you are my man - your money better be coming my way or I move on - point blank period

Let's not fool ourselves here - if you are my man, you ARE NOT MY FRIEND who only receives a conversation and a smile - a thought for the day from my lips to his ears.

As my man - I have certain duties I will provide to you and as my man you have certain duties you provide to me.  It is that simple - you get more from me than a conversation and a smile.

What is hard for you to understand about that very simple and basic fact that shouldn't on any level escape either one of us.  That is difference between a male friend and a male who is your boyfriend, soon to be fiance, fiance, soon to be husband and husband.

My allowing you to lay claim to me in front of the world and all who are in it - just secured your position of my giving you my loyalty, my time, my talents - become yours on different levels.  In turn your presence in my life also becomes a joy and a benefit to me - part of your presence entails the wallet in your pocket.

Point, blank period.

Dyt check my profile,
send me a mail.

MRbrownJAY:

and yet, many guys are quick to go home to get a wife, when most gals over there have "parasites tendencies" (as we can see on this thread). i do feel sorry for the guy who will end up with these lot.

Ronkebp wrote:

imagine?! your hard earn wealth thrown around as if it has NO VALUE!!!! i guess in her world, poor men have NO RIGHT to date and should be single forever?!
a rich man who throw his money around will eventually become a POOR MAN and when he does, that goldigging parasite he was so eager to "splash on" will quickly disappear.
if the money is the only attraction then all of these girls are simply very expensive ASHEWOS pretending to be GFs.
sad indeed!

Like i said, everybody should answer im papa name, if you can't afford a said 'expensive ashawo' go for your size, abi naa?? we have small, medium,large and king sizes, allow the heavy loaded, enjoy the ride and throw cash in the air!!!!, no need for the weeping!!!!

And guess what my man?  I also have my own job and provide for the majority of my own needs but when I need you to step in and handle some areas that need attention - it is your job to step in and do just that especially if it isn't going to overload or stress you out.

For you to imagine at any level and at any time that you shouldn't be stepping in on my behalf - it is at that time that the relationship should dissolve - because obviously you and I are going in two completely different directions and it is obvious that you don't have my best interests at heart.