Tosin . . .

I still got the remaining Chemical they use for Michael Jackson. If you want i can send you some. You are too dark not even black. Don't let shy one fool you that

US Girlz will hunt you down. Well sha, you can get some pple of your clique in south Chicago (Eaglewood). .

beside i ain't saving your pic. . . i set a trap for you and you fall into it. . . . i got so many Nairaland Guyz picz.

Shy-One:

Tosin:

Start drinking bottled water - if you drink alcohol or smoke ganji - slow down - don't put much in your system unless it is healthy for your eyes and teeth - as much as possible keep the whites of your eyes and your teeth white.

Don't kill your liver - you are a beautiful black man.  You are very photogenic as well - take care of yourself - get bottled water and slow down on any alcohol drinks.  Prepare yourself for your future.

Your looks can sell BIG TIME - but only if your eyes are white and get your teeth cleaned to be pearly white as well - you can go places - start doing some Nollywood movies.

Isn't Orinklia involved in that area - start doing and being an extra in Nollywood movies - get your name out there while you still have your good looks.  Get busy man in the right areas!!  Start doing commercials, etc.

where do you want him to get money for all those thing you mention.

well shaaa pure water na fresh water

Shy-One

Madam, stop mistaken toothpick for teeth o!, hope you're not putting on glassess thats even 2008 pic dat i-diot named seedord247 just posted here, i was expecting my recent pic from the slowpoke.

Op,

Are you paralysed, braindead, disabled or what?

Was financial assistance one of your consideration before agreeing to date him?

What are you giving in this relationship or your own na to just collect?

Why is it that your bf can make money and you cant? Did you donate your own brain to Isi ewu seller?

And some ppl are saying she is giving sex, Hope you know what they call those who give sex in exchange for money

Seedord247

This is my account name on facebook again: Tosin Samuel-Grandhustle Ayodele Jr

If You're really proud of your look and you believe than you're handsome than me then drop your facebook name.

@ Seedord and Tosin:

Seed:

Stop trying to ruin his good looks with chemicals - didn't anyone learn from Michael Jackson's chemical mistakes?

Tosin - Don't you dare touch any chemical - Michael Jackson wasn't with a woman - he ruined his own skin - don't touch crap and ruin the beauty God gave to you.

I see your toothpick - I am not blind and I am just encouraging you to move more towards bottled water so your eyes are clear and clean.

I am sending over several gallons of water that will arrive in Lagos sometime in October so I can leave some for you to pick up if you need it.  I know you men drink more alcohol than us women.

I am just saying to focus in that area - I get my teeth whitened even though I brush all the time.

OK - I don't want to get banned so let's stay on topic.

Thank you all for your analysis for and against my post. I have taken good and bad criticism in good stride. I have understood both sides and will work towards being more independent but sincerely hope he would be a provider for his family and start learning now.

For the bitter ones who nearly crucified the poster, it is not my fault that some girls you met at some point in your lives treated you or your best friends as magas or atm machines. Not every girl as generalized by most of the guys want to depend on a man, if they can help it. And when they do, it is usually for realistic matters, not materialistic issues, Up until now, I never felt the need to want help from my man whom I have been seeing for a while now.

I am glad not to be dating a Nigerian girl. Somebody is even telling her to test her BF! Oh no!Our girls should stop acting as Lovepeddlers.They are the ones who play hard to get and at the same time want to play on your intelligence. The moment she succeeded in getting that money it will become gossip for her and her friends in school.

@ Poster if your boyfriend/ fiance is stingy run oooooo, because he will not remember your wedding anniversaries, birthdays, valentines' because he does not have common initiative to buy you, 'i love you card'. A stingy man cannot be managed.

seedord247:

Tosin . . .

I still got the remaining Chemical they use for Michael Jackson. If you want i can send you some. You are too dark not even black. Don't let shy one fool you that

US Girlz will hunt you down. Well sha, you can get some pple of your clique in south Chicago (Eaglewood). .

beside i ain't saving your pic. . . i set a trap for you and you fall into it. . . . i got so many Nairaland Guyz picz.
where do you want him to get money for all those thing you mention.

well shaaa pure water na fresh water

WHYYY?

are you that bored

Tosinville:

Shy-One

Madam, stop mistaken toothpick for teeth o!, hope you're not putting on glassess thats even 2008 pic dat i-diot named seedord247 just posted here, i was expecting my recent pic from the slowpoke.

Tosin I can't addd You menh. . .  Becasue my MorMOns Frnds will be sacred of commenting on my Fb Page again,

they are scare of blacks not to even talk of Dark Guy like you.

Follow shy one advice . Hope it helps.

when you look like Ramsey Noah . . . I can give it a thought.

Get Close UP.

lovedgal:

Thank you all for your analysis for and against my post. I have taken good and bad criticism in good stride. I have understood both sides and will work towards being more independent but sincerely hope he would be a provider for his family and start learning now.

For the bitter ones who nearly crucified the poster, it is not my fault that some girls you met at some point in your lives treated you or your best friends as magas or atm machines. Not every girl as generalized by most of the guys want to depend on a man, if they can help it. And when they do, it is usually for realistic matters,  not materialistic issues,  Up until now, I never felt the need to want help from my man whom I have been seeing for a while now.

Good on you, but just so you know,if a guy truely loves you and cant afford to help you financially at all,what would you do,leave his love  and opt fot the one that dont love you but gives you money?these are strong questions you must ask yourself,I already know the answer  but the truth they say is bitter,this is why we left 9ja in the first place,its so hard to be self sufficient even though you work,its hard to keep up let alone not work
On a last note only a true Maga would allow themselves to be taken 4 an ATM machine by a girl,these are men who aint confident or rather married

@ronkebp

Among basic reasons men look down on some girls. What if the guy's not to be there? Come on, learn to act to take responsibility. Such woman can't help to fix a falling home!

Shy-One

Its alright am not taking things personal here so you can't get banned, since the dude can't give his facebook name here shows he's nothing but a lame arse with ugly looking face.

all4naija:

@ronkebp

Among basic reasons men look down on some girls. What if the guy's not to be there? Come on, learn to act to take responsibility. Such woman can't help to fix a falling home!

by saying take responsibility how do you mean guy?

@lovedgal.

Wow, talk about criticisms from the posters.   I could not continue reading because the hating was just too much.
Life is a struggle and would continue to be. IMO, a stingy person today will remain stingy tomorrow. You mentioned this was a serious relationship. If you think you can deal with this for the rest of your life with this guy then, go ahead. I suggest you talk to him about it first before making any decisions. He maybe testing you or he is just being himself. I will also suggest that you commit the relationship into God's hands if you really care about him. Good luck!

R231

hahaha the dude named seedord247 is really a jobless cow LOL

@erico2k2

Don't always hope for your guy to help you out in such a situation! I think that is a responsibility.You can confidently say you did it on your own and you are independent on anybody! PEACE!

You say a stingy man today would be stingy in marriage

What of a begging girl today what would she be in marriage? By the same logic she would be a perpetual beggar.

How many times has he asked you for money or financial assistance? Why should you now be asking him?

erico2k2:

by saying take responsibility how do you mean guy?

Plz don;t let us generalize this thing on Naija woman

There some guyz that are absolutely stingy to the call.

For me Naija ladies are still the most caring in the World.

all4naija:

@ronkebp

Among basic reasons men look down on some girls. What if the guy's not to be there? Come on, learn to act to take responsibility. Such woman can't help to fix a falling home!

A stingy man is a 'stingy man" this is not about taking responsibilities, in a relationship, both should be  givers and takers, a man or woman that does not have the initiative to give in a relationship is very bad and should not be accommodated, especially if you are from a family that gives', i have a friend (male) who left his fiancee because she was stingy, she almost ran mad, and that is for a female ooooo, talk more of a man.

dayokanu:

You say a stingy man today would be stingy in marriage

What of a begging girl today what would she be in marriage? By the same logic she would be a perpetual beggar.

How many times has he asked you for money or financial assistance? Why should you now be asking him?

Dayo lol. You sound pissed off.

I can tell that you're stingy o.

all4naija:

@erico2k2

Don't always hope for your guy to help you out in such a situation! I think that is a responsibility.You can confidently say you did it on your own and you are independent on anybody! PEACE!

thats correct, I wish most girls would listen to this, for all we know the so called stingy man could be sponsoring 3 sisters  and tw brothers in thier education.

yes, oohunt. It is serious and I will talk about it with him at some point soon. I have committed the relationship into God's hands.

@erico2k2, I wouldn't go for a man who wouldn't love me but I really hope this one who loves me will provide for his family if we eventually end up together.
I was not just worried for the now, I wondered for long term.

Our girls are fond of defending themselves even when they know it is far from the truth. I can tell you this same poster must have discussed this issue with her friends on what to do before posting it here. Why not try to understand this man better than dragging him into your finances. Men are always watching in this regard. I think you have to prove you are not a load or responsibility at this moment rather you are indicating that with a red light for the future in this case!

lovedgal:

yes, oohunt. It is serious and I will talk about it with him at some point soon. I have committed the relationship into God's hands.

@erico2k2, I wouldn't go for a man who wouldn't love me but I really hope this one who loves me will provide for his family if we eventually end up together.
I was not just worried for the now, I wondered for long term.

why are you in this relationship. . . . . cus to me i dont think you really knw this man and you are sitting here talking about long term

Seedord247

Hope you've checked my recent pics on facebook, you can see that am better and handsome than many males in your family with looks LOL

lovedgal:

yes, oohunt. It is serious and I will talk about it with him at some point soon. I have committed the relationship into God's hands.

@erico2k2, I wouldn't go for a man who wouldn't love me but I really hope this one who loves me will provide for his family if we eventually end up together.
I was not just worried for the now, I wondered for long term.

My dear develop  and upgrade yourself, dont wait 4 no man cos in the future if you av lil arguments he will tell you he trained you i n school etc, like i said earlier for all you  know he could be spending money in paying the fees of his siblings.

@ronkebp
if you read my ealier post you would notice  that I asked for definition of stingyness within this context.In my book a stingy person is one who takes  and fails to give,no in the situation of the OP what is taken  and what is there to give? you cant say S   e   x   cos that would ammount to prostitution, so tell me, what is there to give  and to take

lovedgal:

yes, oohunt. It is serious and I will talk about it with him at some point soon. I have committed the relationship into God's hands.

@erico2k2, I wouldn't go for a man who wouldn't love me but I really hope this one who loves me will provide for his family if we eventually end up together.
I was not just worried for the now, I wondered for long term.

I understand where you are coming from Girl . . . .


If your Guy cannot do something tangible in your relationship rather than $ex  he can't do nada in your marriage.

I'm man and i know what am saying. Those saying Naija Girl are the worst to date. let them try Florida and Texas Akata.

Spending money on gf is not d way 2 learn how 2 take care of family. Another thing is that if eventually d relationship gets 2 marriage d family of d lady may not consider his efforts when thinkin if d guy is good 4 their graduate daughter.

@r231,

yes, i think long term because he wants to marry me and I like him a lot except this 1 thing that disturbs me, which I will talk to him about.

@erico2k2,

he isnt taking rsponsibility for any siblings, just his mother which I know is normal.

Buc:

Spending money on gf is not d way 2 learn how 2 take care of family. Another thing is that if eventually d relationship gets 2 marriage d family of d lady may not consider his efforts when thinkin if d guy is good 4 their graduate daughter.

bless you mehn. . . . .

most of these lot dont use their brain at all

ronkebp:

A stingy man is a 'stingy man" this is not about taking responsibilities, in a relationship, both should be  givers and takers, a man or woman that does not have the initiative to give in a relationship is very bad and should not be accommodated, especially if you are from a family that gives', i have a friend (male) who left his fiancee because she was stingy, she almost ran mad, and that is for a female ooooo, talk more of a man.

have you asked the op what she has given the BF before?  Has she ever even given him as much as a sachet of pure water.

Ileke-IdI:

Dayo lol. You sound pissed off.

I can tell that you're stingy o.

Yes i am pissed at the attitude of some naija girls who think once you have a BF your financial problems are solved. Was him giving money the reason you agreed to date him?