Seedord247

Your ugly nyansh for snobbin me o!, till you die you can never be like me or handsome like me. Mofo lol

Tosinville:

Seedord247

Your ugly nyansh for snobbin me o!, till you die you can never be like me or handsome like me. Mofo lol

i said when you look like Ramsey Noah . . . i can give it a thought of adding you on my waitlist on Facebook

erico2k2:

My dear develop  and upgrade yourself, dont wait 4 no man cos in the future if you av lil arguments he will tell you he trained you i n school etc, like i said earlier for all you  know he could be spending money in paying the fees of his siblings.

@ronkebp
if you read my ealier post you would notice  that I asked for definition of stingyness within this context.In my book a stingy person is one who takes  and fails to give,no in the situation of the OP what is taken  and what is there to give? you cant say S   e   x   cos that would ammount to prostitution, so tell me, what is there to give  and to take

Am using 'stingy' in the context of usage above by the poster, i really do not care for the correct definition, any person that does not give, is stingy in my dictionary, nobody is saying he should pay bills, but insome aspect he should stand up and be a man. A man should be the bread-winner, not be waiting for what the woman will bring to the table. Any Niggar that is waiting for a woman to bring her own half of the money to pay peco bills, or dstv, has a long way to go. there are things that women will do without being asked or when the man is not around, she steps in and foot the bills or in the case of when he looses a job  ( God forbid), or if the womans 'take home' is obviously more than the husbands' the woman steps in, but a fully grown man waiting for my salary or any womans' salary before he will live his life as a 'sole' provider, is a LOOSER. to me,

lovedgal:

@r231,

yes, i think long term because he wants to marry me and I like him a lot except this 1 thing that disturbs me,  which I will talk to him about.

again you didn't answer my question. . . . .

DO YOU REALLY KNOW THIS GUY YOU PLAN TO MARRY.

don't tell me because he like you and you liked him a lot thats pure nonsense. . . . .

definitely you don't knw him

ronkebp:

Am using 'stingy' in the context of usage above by the poster, i really do not care for the correct definition, any person that does not give, is stingy in my dictionary, nobody is saying he should pay bills, but insome aspect he should stand up and be a man. A man should be the bread-winner, not be waiting for what the woman will bring to the table. Any Niggar that is waiting for a woman to bring her own half of the money to pay peco bills, or dstv, has a long way to go. there are things that women will do without being asked or when the man is not around, she steps in and foot the bills or in the case of when he looses a job ( God forbid), or if the womans 'take home' is obviously more than the husbands' the woman steps in, but a fully grown man waiting for my salary or any womans' salary before he will live his life as a 'sole' provider, is a LOOSER. to me,

HAVE YOU ASKED THE POSTER WHAT SHE HAS EVER GIVEN TO THE GUY?

dayokanu:

[b]have you asked the op what she has given the BF before?  Has she ever even given him as much as a sachet of pure water.[/b]Yes i am pissed at the attitude of some naija girls who think once you have a BF your financial problems are solved. Was him giving money the reason you agreed to date him?

i don't have to know what she has given him, that is not the bone of contention here. She said her man is stingy and she has her own reasons for saying that. just because a lady is independent and makes all the money does not mean that the guy should not think to get her a small gift, what will you be doing in the relationship gan seff? sex and talk? hmmmmm, i just thank God for my life shaa!!!!

^^^ yes, i know him, But one never knows the other person completely enough, that's why I commit it unto God's hands, i know him but I am still getting to know him everyday,
@Dayokanu, I accept that you are stingy and that those texas girls have probably drained you more times than you feel comfortable with, I MUSTN'T HAVE GIVEN THIS MAN ANYTHING TO DESERVE HIS HELPING ME WHEN I GENUINELY NEED IT, Having said that, I have directly and indirectly given and that gives me joy, to be a giver, I do not mean sex as most freely potrayed here,

@Op u ve to understand that u re not yet his responsbility he might ve somany other resposibility he z carin for. But before callin him names, u ask him first, asking z a supernatural law for u to get.

Lol! These girls are becoming leeches these days! They keep twisting words to defend themselves! Thanking and praying to god will now be the solution.

Whatever, the man is not asking you to take responsibility but don't be a liability at this early stage. Jeez! Try to look for other means of raising that money.

Seedord247

where are you, were? LOL

ronkebp:

i don't have to know what she has given him, that is not the bone of contention here. She said her man is stingy and she has her own reasons for saying that. just because a lady is independent and makes all the money does not mean that the guy should not think to get her a small gift, what will you be doing in the relationship gan seff? sex and talk? hmmmmm, i just thank God for my life shaa!!!!

The natural law is that when you give you receive, If you dont give you shouldnt expect to receive unless you are a thief or just greedy.

lovedgal:


@Dayokanu, I accept that you are stingy and that those texas girls have probably drained you more times than you feel comfortable with, I MUSTN'T HAVE GIVEN THIS MAN ANYTHING TO DESERVE HIS HELPING ME WHEN I GENUINELY NEED IT, Having said that, I have directly and indirectly given and that gives me joy, to be a giver, I do not mean sex as most freely potrayed here,

Actually I dont date beggars those who come cap in hand begging for a livelihood, I date girls who are well educated, earn their own money and dont need a man to help them before they survive

The relationship is based on everything aside from leeching on their man. Some people are alergic to dating parasites.

I feel sorry for your BF because he should also know what he is getting into, A beggar in dating would be a Beggar in marriage

@ronkebp
thats a total diffrent sceenerio,we are talking about two people who dont live together, the might not even live in same state,might only see each other once in a month for all we know she is in Uni but she aint told us where he lives yet or what he does for living, when you live together wiv you bf its a diffrent bsll game but when its relationships based on you living appart you dont expect the guy to give you money 2wards things like hand outs,rent,clothes,shoes,mobile top ups,hair do,??

all4naija:

Lol! These girls are becoming leeches these days! They keep twisting words to defend themselves! Thanking and praying to god will now be the solution.

Whatever, the man is not asking you to take responsibility but don't be a liability at this early stage. Jeez! Try to look for other means of raising that money.

Whatever!!!! a man that cannot provide for his gal, should go and sit down first, when he has made enough money for him to throw around he should come back and have her. Where i live you need to see how men pamper their girlfriends/ fiance/ wives, in every aspect, despite the fact that they are both independent, you need to see how they spend on vacations, on flowers, gifts and so on and so forth, so i don't know what you men are saying, all i can infer is that the naija guys we have now, are not capable and are irresponsible, and that is why we have aristos' taking over.

ronkebp:

Whatever!!!! a man that cannot provide for his gal, should go and sit down first, when he has made enough money for him to throw around he should come back and have her. Where i live you need to see how men pamper their girlfriends/ fiance/ wives, in every aspect, despite the fact that they are both independent, you need to see how they spend on vacations, on flowers, gifts and so on and so forth, so i don't know what you men are saying, all i can infer is that the naija guys we have now, are not capable and are irresponsible, and that is why we have aristos' taking over.

you dont get it do yah lolol you are so goulable, try and ask OP what she wants,see if its amongst any of those things you just listed as to what men do for thier girls over where you live plz ask lolyou would discover its the total opposit, you are living in a near perfect world where both gender have equall opportunity.YOU ARE ADVICING A GUY TO BUY FLOWERS FOR A GIRL IN 9JA lol that would B war start lol she will tell you say nah flower she go chop

erico2k2:

@ronkebp
thats a total diffrent sceenerio,we are talking about two people who dont live together, the might not even live in same state,might only see each other once in a month for all we know she is in Uni but she aint told us where he lives yet or what he does for living, when you live together wiv you bf its a diffrent bsll game but when its relationships based on you living appart you dont expect the guy to give you money 2wards things like hand outs,rent,clothes,shoes,mobile top ups,hair do,??

I am talking about real relationships not boy/girl friend realtionship that will not last more than 2 months, i am talking about those who are serious to settle down,  if the guy is up-and -doing financially and the girl is still a student and he knows what the girl's financial background is all about, i do not see anything wrong in helping her out, especially if he wants her to look good always. it is a different ball game for gold-diggers though, you men know them, but you will never stop chasing after them.

erico2k2:

you dont get it do yah lolol you are so goulable, try and ask OP what she wants,see if its amongst any of those things you just listed as to what men do for thier girls over where you live plz ask lolyou would discover its the total opposit, you are living in a near perfect world where both gender have equall opportunity.YOU ARE ADVICING A GUY TO BUY FLOWERS FOR A GIRL IN 9JA lol that would B war start lol she will tell you say nah flower she go chop

Lol, all those flower runs is acceptable here, Naija get im own runs, let them do it as it is there, if na blackberry dey reign, then the so called lover should make it rain (joke) but seriously, it is all about showing that 'i care about you,' even if na to buy ikpekere!!!! it is acceptable, but not to do at all!!!! mbanu!!!!.

ronkebp:

Lol, all those flower runs is acceptable here, Naija get im own runs, let them do it as it is there, if na blackberry dey reign, then the so called lover should make it rain (joke) but seriously, it is all about showing that 'i care about you,' even if na to buy ikpekere!!!! it is acceptable, but not to do at all!!!! mbanu!!!!.

I have seen where the buying of flower became war lol girls in 9ja want physical cash,phone, most especially pay the Rent.


NOW @ OP
Answer this or hold your peace,what do you want from the guy?? stop bitting arround the Bush,lets see if you are woman anough to answer this question.

Why isnt the woman the one giving?

I am sure in that same environment you live, Women shower gifts on their BF/Fiancee/Husbands

But for the leeches and parasite the giving is expected to be unidirectional

dayokanu:

The natural law is that when you give you receive, If you dont give you shouldnt expect to receive unless you are a thief or just greedy.[/b]Actually I dont date beggars those who come cap in hand begging for a livelihood, I date girls who are well educated, earn their own money and dont need a man to help them before they survive

The relationship is based on everything aside from leeching on their man. Some people are alergic to dating parasites.

I feel sorry for your BF because he should also know what he is getting into, [b]A beggar in dating would be a Beggar in marriage

that is what am saying, both of them should be the giver and the receiver.

And asper marraige, you do not know anything about it, just hug your fantasy and hope you find it someday!!!

So whats the fantasy? Care to explain?

erico2k2:

I have seen where the buying of flower became war  lol girls in 9ja want physical cash,phone, most especially pay the Rent.


NOW @ OP
Answer this or hold your peace,what  do you want from the guy?? stop bitting arround the Bush,lets see if you are woman anough to answer this question.

very true

give 9ja girl flower she go ask you whether dem tell you say i be GOAT

Gosh
cant blv NL guys r so deadly dumb
now i ask u guys typin bs
if truely u care bout ur so called gfs
dont u atleast show lil witout askin?
I cld tell ur gfs pushes u all abt
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@OP

Your reasoning that that your BF is not good for marriage, because he is not spending on you is wrong.

Haven't you heard of Men who spend millions on their GFs and yet their Wife and children are living in lack.

A man is only responsible to his Wife,Daughter,Mother and Sister.

Every other women is secondly including his GF.

My question is, what do you have to offer in the  relationship?

Because i don't value women can't offer any thing yet they want to receive.

emmatok:

@OP

Your reasoning that that your BF is not good for marriage, because he is not spending on you is wrong.

Haven't you heard of Men who spend millions on their GFs and yet their Wife and children are living in lack.

A man is only responsible to his Wife,Daughter,Mother and Sister.

Every other women is secondly including his GF.

[size=18pt]My question is, what do you have to offer in the relationship[/size]?

Because i don't value women can't offer any thing yet they want to receive.

Good question. Especially the one in bold

dayokanu:

Why isnt the woman the one giving?

I am sure in that same environment you live, Women shower gifts on their BF/Fiancee/Husbands

But for the leeches and parasite the giving is expected to be unidirectional

if you read my post well, you would have noticed that i said, it has to be both ways, the giving has to be from  both of them. and not just the guy alone. but no!!!! you decided to pick the only thing that mattered to you, 'leeches',

here we go guys , this is one way girls are more richer nowadays than men because men incur more losses , we spend money, we suppose to save for developing capital on women ,and recharge card, i heard a woman said i cant call a man in my life, u heard this lady saying other bf are nt stingy , what happen to other is losses on their expenses on the same girl,how many guys will incur loses on the same girl bfor she marry a man after all she cant marry 2 man ,i believe this girl is a lazy type depending on man  cash gift ,i think guys should wake up save ur income ,stop spending on girl friends until u r married, cos both of u are contending and under same pressure, u r free to express ur love in any form cash or whatever u like but not to an extend when ur income is affected just to please a woman and at the end she left for another better guys or richer guy for her to get more income , men are always the looser and the end. please let share love in moderate

Dyt:

Gosh
cant blv NL guys r so deadly dumb
now i ask u guys typin bs
if truely u care bout your so called gfs
dont u atleast show lil witout askin?
I cld tell your gfs pushes u all abt
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Only dumb men waste money on GFs, when they can to something better with their money.

So you think i would ignore my immediate family(parent and siblings) and business.

For a GFs who probably has numerous BFs in her life.

emmatok:

Only dumb men waste money on GFs, when they can to something better with their money.

So you think i would ignore my immediate family(parent and siblings) and business.

For a GFs who probably has numerous BFs in her life.

and just to ask, guys do take thier girls out,buy cards and flowers and holidays lol what else does she want ohhhh yeh black berry,Rent money,top up T fare lol

bdek:

here we go guys , this is one way girls are more richer nowadays than men because men incur more losses , we spend money, we suppose to save for developing capital on women ,and recharge card, i heard a woman said i cant call a man in my life, u heard this lady saying other bf are nt stingy , what happen to other is losses on their expenses on the same girl,how many girl will incur loses on the same girl bfor she marry a man after all she cant marry 2 man ,i believe this girl is a lazy type depending on man  cash gift ,i think guys should wake up save your income ,stop spending on girl friends until u r married cos both of u are contending and under same pressure, u r free to express your love in any form cash or whatever u likeable not to an extend your income is affected just to please a woman and at the end she left for another better guys or richer guy for her to get more income , men are always the looser and the end. please is vice verser too let share love in moderate

No mind them.

The-same girl you will buy 5k recharge cards and she will still FLASH you to say thank you.

Awon oshofree.

Emmatok
so u mean u dont give ur so called gfs gifts
no choc,no tips,nottin?
R ur fingers so closed lyk dat horse at onikan?

Dyt:

Emmatok
so u mean u dont give your so called gfs gifts
no choc,no tips,nottin?
R your fingers so closed lyk dat horse at onikan?

Nope, they obviously don't.