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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by bughead: 12:59am On Jan 05, 2018
Yungkid101:
An Igbo lady is really angry about the cost of her traditional wedding as it has drained herself and her Isoko husband financially, to the point of being in debt.


She took to Facebook to rant about it. Read below…

https://www.tribesng.com/entertainment/lady-calls-igbo-fathers-says-husband-debt-after-spending-money-traditional-wedding/

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I married such kind of woman with enormous bride price, God know I will be beating her morning, afternoon and evening plus early morning beating undecided

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Nobody: 12:59am On Jan 05, 2018
idu1:
undecided




That's why you see many aunty amaka and chioma roaming the street of lagos with their yam legs and heavenly powdered faces(trying to appear young) without husband. Especially IMO ladies. Make una continue.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 1:00am On Jan 05, 2018
Greenbullet:
Some foolish people are here slating Yoruba people, My friend married from a Yoruba Family and guess what, the father -in-law told the boy not to pay a dime for bride price, The cost of the wedding was shared between my friend and the father, right now my friend is in England with his wife, the money he intended to use for the bride price is what he used to process their travelling documents, I am the one in charge of building his house, at roofing stage, if the father was greedy like this IMO state man, the husbands life wouldn't have taken this turn !

PLEASE LEAVE OUR IGBO CULTURE AND FACE YOUR YORUBA CULTURE.

I AM IGBO AND YOU ARE YORUBA.

WATER AND OIL DONT MIX.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by sinceraconcept(m): 1:00am On Jan 05, 2018
very wicked Biafra fathers selling their daughters off, and all the money would go down into buying Goat for Isi ewu,Wrapper,walking stick,the cloth with tiger patterns on it,the cloth with Lion head patterns on it,Barrels of Palm wine,Bottles of Seaman's Schnapps,baskets of Kola nuts,Bush meats,marry new wife and other useless things.
they would now sit down on reclining chair in front of their bungalow,throwing grammatical blunders and cracking useless jokes with their friends enjoying palm wine and kolanut all from the proceeds of the loot and after everything finishes,they would start looking for another matured daughter to sell

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 1:02am On Jan 05, 2018
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sinceraconcept:
very wicked Biafra fathers selling their daughters off, and all the money would go down into buying Goat for Isi ewu,Wrapper,walking stick,the cloth with tiger patterns on it,the cloth with Lion head patterns on it,Barrels of Palm wine,Bottles of Seaman's Schnapps,baskets of Kola nuts,Bush meats,marry new wife and other useless things. After buying everything they would be looking for another matured daughter to sell off
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STOP BEGGING TO MARRY IGBO.

GO AND MARRY YOUR CONE HEAD WOMEN.

AS RICH AS BUHARI IS, HE COLLECTED BRIDE PRICE ON ZAHRA.

IT IS A THING OF HONOUR AND WIDE SPREAD ACROSS AFRICA NOT JUST IGBO.

BESIDES OUR WOMEN ARE NOT 4 U

I AM TIRED AND SICK OF AFONJA.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by elslaqq: 1:03am On Jan 05, 2018
I prefer these on the front page to that stuff above.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by ApexPredator: 1:04am On Jan 05, 2018
The practice of charging exorbitant bride price to non-Igbos must continue. grin

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Greenbullet(m): 1:05am On Jan 05, 2018
hammerF6:


PLEASE LEAVE OUR IGBO CULTURE AND FACE YOUR YORUBA CULTURE.

I AM IGBO AND YOU ARE YORUBA.

WATER AND OIL DONT MIX.



rubbish

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by grandstar(m): 1:06am On Jan 05, 2018
CaptainG00D:
Hmm ok.
Any man that cant pay for his woman bride price is not up to age to marry.
By the way its not by force to marry an igbo woman.. if u try and u no fit pay look elsewhere.

As for u friends who has "VOWED"..not to mmarry igbo women pls tell them to vow with ogun and amadioha so that the vow will strong well well.
Becoz im loving that vow let them keep away from our women pls and stick to their own who "dont sell" their kids.

Pls pls all igbo parents should increase the brideprice more let them leave our gals alone pls. angry

NUFF SAID!!

Instead of you to condemn a detestable practice, you come here supporting it. Even the bible which most Igbos follow condemns the love of money. (1 Timothy 6:9-10)

It will be nice to see many Igbo ladies settled down and happily married than old, miserable and single all for no other reason than worthless money.

My friend, hate what is bad (Psalms 97:10)

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 1:07am On Jan 05, 2018
ApexPredator:
The practice of charging exorbitant bride price to non-Igbos must continue. grin


MY BROTHER MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR THE WRETCHED.

JUST IMAGINE.

PEOPLE DEY MARRY EVERYDAY, YET ANYTIME THESE NON-IGBOS LEAVE THEIR FREE WOMEN AND ARRIVE IGBO LAND, THEY WANT THEIR INLAW TO FOOT THE BILL FOR THEIR OWN WEDDING.


THESE PEOPLE HAVE NO SHAME. YOU CANNOT AFFORD A WEDDING AND U HAVE THE GUTS TO DISCLOSE THAT TO THE WORLD


I BLAME IGBO PARENTS THAT TOLERATE INTER-TRIBAL BULL SHIIT FOR ALL THIS INSULT.


WRETCHED PEOPLE SHOULD NOT BRING KIDS INTO THE WORLD TO SUFFER.


THE WORLD IS NOT VERY KIND WEN DEY GO STEALING BECOS THEIR FATHER IS WRETCHED AND LAZY.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Austyno90(m): 1:14am On Jan 05, 2018
Bringing this up on social media. Haba sista, it's wrong. cry undecided cry cry cry cry cry

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by berrystunn(m): 1:15am On Jan 05, 2018
okway:


Are Igbos the only ones that go to school in Nigeria? Keep excusing the sales of Igbo girls cheesy
Selling your children won’t impact their happiness in marriage.


Usu what do you know about Igbo's and their traditions
?

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Pidginwhisper: 1:16am On Jan 05, 2018
tossie101:


Ignore them u know u cant say anything that wil make then reason with u..
Thats how yorubas are.
Spitting igbos is their hubby
Has made me grown some kind of dislike for them its a pity

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by sinceraconcept(m): 1:18am On Jan 05, 2018
hammerF6:
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STOP BEGGING TO MARRY IGBO.

GO AND MARRY YOUR CONE HEAD WOMEN.

AS RICH AS BUHARI IS, HE COLLECTED BRIDE PRICE ON ZAHRA.

IT IS A THING OF HONOUR AND WIDE SPREAD ACROSS AFRICA NOT JUST IGBO.

BESIDES OUR WOMEN ARE NOT 4 U

I AM TIRED AND SICK OF AFONJA.

After Afonja Fani Kayode don destroy the pussy of your Igbo Godmother Bianca finish while she was with your King of Igbos. Shame on you guys. your sister just exposed your thieving Igbo fathers,go and beat her for that

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by grandstar(m): 1:21am On Jan 05, 2018
safarigirl:
I am pained at the level of disrespect exhibited by the lady. You cannot warn your father privately, but you brought family matter tk Facebook, to what end?

If her father is collecting ten million on her head, she should face him and not drag other innocent fathers into it.

May I never give birth to such a disrespectful child, what rubbish!

PS: Most Igbo women are not babymamas. Maybe her family is littered with them sha....and maybe she has begun to suffer in her husband's house, hence her useless words

You seem to support this practice by your choice of words.

i really don't know whether to condemn the girl as she did it for public service even to her own detriment. It isn't easy to tell the world you're in debt blah blah blah.

Im sure she must have voiced some complaint either verbally or through body language which must have fallen on deaf ears of her father due to what Jesus called the deceptive power of riches.

i appreciate her courage and mettle.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 1:21am On Jan 05, 2018
I AM SORRY TO SAY BUT THAT WOMAN IS IN HOT SOUP.

SHE BETTER ROLL UP HER SLEEVES AND FIND A TRADE BECOS, SHE IS THE BREAD WINNER OF THAT FAMILY.

HER MAN COULD NOT EVEN PASS THE 'MEANS TESTING'.

HOW MUCH DID YOUR BROKE ASS BOYFRIEND USE TO FOOT HIS WEDDING EXPENSES?

Y DID U NOT RUN AND FOLLOW HIM WITHOUT WEDDING AND SEE IF HE VALUES FREE THINGS AFTER MAKING YOU A BABY MAMA AND THEN LEAVE TO PURSUE ANOTHER SLAY QUEEN.

INSTEAD OF THANKING YOUR FATHER FOR MAKING HIM RESPONSIBLE, U ARE BLAMING HIM FOR YOUR JOBLESS HUSBAND.

PARENTS ARE NEVER APPRECIATED AND ALWAYS EASY TO BLAME FOR OUR OWN FAILING.

IS THIS HOW U WILL USELESS YOUR FUTURE KIDS WITH INDISCIPLINE.

ALSO, SHE IS A VERY USELESS GIRL. HOPELESS GIRL! COLLECT SLAP!

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by berrystunn(m): 1:21am On Jan 05, 2018
bughead:
I married such kind of woman with enormous bride price, God know I will be beating her morning, afternoon and evening plus early morning beating undecided


Poor man thinking....

Morning, afternoon, and night... Because no work...
Say no to poor this year .. ....

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by CaptainG00D: 1:23am On Jan 05, 2018
grandstar:


Instead of you to condemn a detestable practice, you come here supporting it. Even the bible which most Igbos follow condemns the love of money. (1 Timothy 6:9-10)

It will be nice to see many Igbo ladies settled down and happily married than old, miserable and single all for no other reason than worthless money.

My friend, hate what is bad (Psalms 97:10)

If u like quote from genesis to exodus.
Cant change anything.
There is nothig bad there...
This is a tradition and u have to respect it.

Its brfoce to pay d price
And its not by force to marry igbo women u u have variety of options to marry else where.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by grandstar(m): 1:24am On Jan 05, 2018
Onyi42:
Why don't this girl use her father/community name here and stop identifying with all igboes

My community require next to nothing for bride price

Are you Ebonyi?
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Ekealterego: 1:26am On Jan 05, 2018
grandstar:


You seem to support this practice by your choice of words.

i really don't know whether to condemn the girl as she did it for public service even to her own detriment. It isn't easy to tell the world you're in debt blah blah blah.

Im sure she must have voiced some complaint either verbally or through body language which must have fallen on deaf ears of her father due to what Jesus called the deceptive power of riches.

i appreciate her courage and mettle.
The Igbo men who marry their fellow Igbo women do not have a single problem with this, why are you so bothered? I believe there are other 200 ethnic groups where you can marry for free, just simply go there and stop bothering Igbo people. No one put a bullet in your head to marry nah!

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by lakefist(m): 1:27am On Jan 05, 2018
CaptainG00D:
Hmm ok.
Any man that cant pay for his woman bride price is not ready for marriage n parenthood..
By the way its not by force to marry an igbo woman... look elsewhere where women are cheap.

As for u friends who has "VOWED" not to marry igbo women pls tell them to vow with amadioha and ogun so that the vow will strong well well.
Becoz im loving that vow let them keep away from our women pls and stick to their own who "dont sell" their kids.

Pls pls all igbo parents should increase the brideprice more let them leave our gals alone becoz its getting too much pls. angry

NUFF SAID!!

I doubt you read what the OP posted.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Igholize(m): 1:28am On Jan 05, 2018
those of you calling her childish, stupid for bringing such private issue to
public forums should let her be.... it her personal life nd how she choose to live her life is none of ur concerns. she is pained' d way her lovely husband was treated by her pple nd decided to air her greviances out. like d saying, if u talk' dem go talk. if u no talk' dem go talk.... so, she decided to talk for dem to talk. ndo madam

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by CaptainG00D: 1:29am On Jan 05, 2018
lakefist:

I doubt you read what the OP posted.

Ok

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by unbitchable(m): 1:31am On Jan 05, 2018
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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 1:31am On Jan 05, 2018
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Igholize:
those of you calling her childish, stupid for bringing such private issue to
public forums should let her be.... it her personal life nd how she choose to live her life is none of ur concerns. she is pained' d way her lovely husband was treated by her pple nd decided to air her greviances out. like d saying, if u talk' dem go talk. if u no talk' dem go talk.... so, she decided to talk for dem to talk. ndo madam
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TRASH!


IF U ARE NOT IGBO, GO AND MARRY UR OWN WOMEN AND LEAVE IGBOS ALONE.


EVEN FULANI THAT BUTCHER UR LAZY ASS FOR SUYA AND SHARWAMA DONT GET ALL THIS GRIEF.


IGBO OWES U NOTHING.


SHAMELESS GOAT!


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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by unbitchable(m): 1:31am On Jan 05, 2018
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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by berrystunn(m): 1:34am On Jan 05, 2018
grandstar:


You seem to support this practice by your choice of words.

i really don't know whether to condemn the girl as she did it for public service even to her own detriment. It isn't easy to tell the world you're in debt blah blah blah.

Im sure she must have voiced some complaint either verbally or through body language which must have fallen on deaf ears of her father due to what Jesus called the deceptive power of riches.

i appreciate her courage and mettle.

You don't know noting about the Igbo's and their traditions... That stupid girl saw or know what's its required to marry a girl in there village.... And the list was giving to the guy on what and what is needed....

If the guy can not afford the list or need more time to get things done no one will force him to.... fix a date for the marriage....

All am trying to say is that she saw the list and she did not say anything about it till after the marriage...

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by hammerF6: 1:35am On Jan 05, 2018
berrystunn:


You don't know noting about the Igbo's and their traditions... That stupid girl saw or know what's its required to marry a girl in there village.... And the list was giving to the guy on what and what is needed....

If the guy can not afford the list or need more time to get things done no one will force him to.... fix a date for the marriage....

All am trying to say is that she saw the list and she did not say anything about it till after the marriage...


ALL THE MATERIALS ARE FOR THE COMMUNITY CELEBRATION NOT HER FAMILY.

SO WEN DEY SAY HER FATHER OR FAMILY, I JUST DEY LAUGH.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by grandstar(m): 1:37am On Jan 05, 2018
safarigirl:
it is people who support such foolish behaviour that are not okay.

It is not everything you post on Facebook, especially when you did nothing when you had the opportunity. She just came to Facebook to tell the world that she comes from a family of greedy opportunists.

BTW, you are a Yoruba guy, face your own culture and keep away from that of others, especially if you have no plans to join them

If kids are supppsed to discern how to behave just by taking a look at the father's eye, how much more a parent read the body language of their child or inlaw!

I'm sure her dad didn't give a damn about the discomforting cues emanating from his daughter and in-laws. To him tradition ought to be followed and it's one I like anyway.

In-laws are always on the lookout for cues to detect suitability, pretense and sincerity. Even if sh complained, I'm sure it would have changed little.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by Austyno90(m): 1:39am On Jan 05, 2018
But Criously, the bride price no be here ooo. If she cum go uni Na die be that ooo but my Bros Na strong man although I felt for him sha grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by BigIyanga: 1:45am On Jan 05, 2018
Her English is bad. She's a coward for not standing up to her and defend her husband.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Igbo Father For Putting Her Husband In Debt by luminouz(m): 1:47am On Jan 05, 2018
safarigirl:
She should shut the phuck up or take her useless rant to her father's compound.

So, she could not say this trash to her father's face when they were draining the husband, but she has the gall to carry the matter to FB and disgrace her entire family compound? I hope they disown her if someone from her place comes across this post. Let us see who she will run to when her own suffering begins since she assumes Igbo women are suffering in their marriages


Useless child, they should have dashed her free to the unfortunate husband of an uncultured wife
I don't usually do this but I think u have demèntia n ur rants are so rancid it could cure rabies....
Jeez! See what u posted up there n yet u hope to be a wife one day? undecided

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