hammerF6:



ALL THE MATERIALS ARE FOR THE COMMUNITY CELEBRATION NOT HER FAMILY.

SO WEN DEY SAY HER FATHER OR FAMILY, I JUST DEY LAUGH.

hammerF6:



ALL THE MATERIALS ARE FOR THE COMMUNITY CELEBRATION NOT HER FAMILY.

SO WEN DEY SAY HER FATHER OR FAMILY, I JUST DEY LAUGH.

hammerF6:
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TRASH!


IF U ARE NOT IGBO, GO AND MARRY UR OWN WOMEN AND LEAVE IGBOS ALONE.


EVEN FULANI THAT BUTCHER UR LAZY ASS FOR SUYA AND SHARWAMA DONT GET ALL THIS GRIl


IGBO OWES U NOTHING.


SHAMELESS GOAT!

Igholize:
...... Mr Igbo, i am amazed at ur response to my comment.... u just talked like a child of which i bliv u are.... did i say in my comment, dat i have issues with Igbo's? sentiments has made u not to reason well. u sounds so pained child. no b only u b Igbo o. u just dey disgrace Igbo by ur silly response

tossie101:


U took my words out of my mouth my dear.
The gal is just stupid!.
To what gain is she bringing this issue in social media..
Cant he speak to her father?
Was her husband forced?.
Shez just plainly dumb..

I went to check her out on facebook.
All i saw was one local razz girl and i left.

Austyno90:
COMMUNITY CELEBRATION
To me, it all boils down to the family. Who community epp

tossie101:


Ignore them u know u cant say anything that wil make then reason with u..
Thats how yorubas are.
Spitting igbos is their hubby..
Has made me grown some kind of dislike for them its a pity

berrystunn:


Come and marry for free...usu

That why your place marry 5 wife's.... Because is 2k for one

hammerF6:


PLEASE LEAVE OUR IGBO CULTURE AND FACE YOUR YORUBA CULTURE.

I AM IGBO AND YOU ARE YORUBA.

WATER AND OIL DONT MIX.

tossie101:


Ignore them u know u cant say anything that wil make then reason with u..
Thats how yorubas are.
Spitting igbos is their hubby..
Has made me grown some kind of dislike for them its a pity

tossie101:


U took my words out of my mouth my dear.
The gal is just stupid!.
To what gain is she bringing this issue in social media..
Cant he speak to her father?
Was her husband forced?.
Shez just plainly dumb..

I went to check her out on facebook.
All i saw was one local razz girl and i left.

horsepower101:
Statistics show that igbo women on are the most educated women in Nigeria. It really takes lots of resources to raise them from childhood to university level. So the cost of bride price is nothing.

The tradition of bride price is basically a test to see if you as the man have the resources to take care of your family. If you cannot even afford bride price, then how can you afford the marriage living expenses.

This culture has been there for generations and has forced Igbo men to become very high achievers. That's why you will never see an Igbo man begging on the street corner while an hausa man with 17 children is sitting in the corner begging.

desreek9:
And she had to call out her father on facebook, see what social media has caused, everything must be said online, smh

Didnt she see the list before it was given to her inlaws, she should have gone for court marriage then if she wasnt comfortable with the arrangements

horsepower101:
Statistics show that igbo women on are the most educated women in Nigeria. It really takes lots of resources to raise them from childhood to university level. So the cost of bride price is nothing.

The tradition of bride price is basically a test to see if you as the man have the resources to take care of your family. If you cannot even afford bride price, then how can you afford the marriage living expenses.

This culture has been there for generations and has forced Igbo men to become very high achievers. [b]That's why you will never see an Igbo man begging on the street corner [/b]while an hausa man with 17 children is sitting in the corner begging.

Bigsteveg:

You totally made alot of sense and i commend you for the way you put your response, it shows clearly how matured u are.
However i clearly disagree with you, no matter the tribe or religion, taking care of our kids is the number 1 priority, that is why God gave them to us. Also, bride price is not a true test of a man ability in taking care of a woman. What if he turns a woman beater?
This tradition needs to be addressed, the son in law is already a family and like a son to them, no need to extort him.

And also, nobody can ever recoup the money spent of a child, you cant. so its baseless trying to collect school fees money from the bride price. What happened to the male child, how is he supposed to pay his own school fees money back?

Bigsteveg:

You totally made alot of sense and i commend you for the way you put your response, it shows clearly how matured u are.
However i clearly disagree with you, no matter the tribe or religion, taking care of our kids is the number 1 priority, that is why God gave them to us. Also, bride price is not a true test of a man ability in taking care of a woman. What if he turns a woman beater?
This tradition needs to be addressed, the son in law is already a family and like a son to them, no need to extort him.

And also, nobody can ever recoup the money spent of a child, you cant. so its baseless trying to collect school fees money from the bride price. What happened to the male child, how is he supposed to pay his own school fees money back?

Yungkid101:
An Igbo lady is really angry about the cost of her traditional wedding as it has drained herself and her Isoko husband financially, to the point of being in debt.


She took to Facebook to rant about it. Read below…

https://www.tribesng.com/entertainment/lady-calls-igbo-fathers-says-husband-debt-after-spending-money-traditional-wedding/

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Yungkid101:
An Igbo lady is really angry about the cost of her traditional wedding as it has drained herself and her Isoko husband financially, to the point of being in debt.


She took to Facebook to rant about it. Read below…

https://www.tribesng.com/entertainment/lady-calls-igbo-fathers-says-husband-debt-after-spending-money-traditional-wedding/

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dumo1:

idu1:





That's why you see many aunty amaka and chioma roaming the street of lagos with their yam legs and heavenly powdered faces(trying to appear young) without husband. Especially IMO ladies. Make una continue.

macof:

Culture is Culture, If the man cannot pay Igbo bride price he is not ready to marry Igbo woman.
He could have told the woman to wait for him while he hustles for money to be able to afford her bride-price plus negotiate with her father or he moves on. When the father sees that he doesn't come back he would reduce the price

Bigsteveg:

So u went to fb and started looking for a girl saying her mind?
What do u do on a daily basis?

Bigsteveg:

The question is are u in love with yourself?
Nobody can make anybody do anything, they just bring out what is in u.
are u also a money making machine for ur family?

IdeyFindWife:


Explains the plight of so many in Abuja too.

I don't see the reason for people getting all worked up and being so guarded with upholding archaic norms and way-outta-line ethno-religious customs that border on ruining the lives and happiness' of the coming generation while claiming to be advancing.

A lot appear stranded because they can't take home those who sincerely love them but couldn't afford the price tag so after years of living together, they part ways or some do the unthinkable of having kids outta wedlock etc. It's just pathetic that some people still gloat over oppressive bridal prices when State Governments are working on doing away with such customs.



Sir, would it really be right to sacrifice your daughter's future happiness to ""Culture"?
What is culture?
Must it be a static entity or an ever-evolving one changing for the service, guidance and betterment of humanity?
Where does that put us in the commonwealth of nations?

For a people, largely claiming to be christians and christlike, hoping to be accepted into Paradise one day after we close our eyes in death; where does this put us?

As parishioners, our priests and pastors teach us the Holy Scriptures, the Blessed Injunctions of our Infallible Maker, but we depart the Sanctuary of Christ after partaking of the Blessed Sacraments to willfully go back into perpetrating the various personal, inherited and societal ills that we are supposed to expunge from our nature and character?!

The Holy Book warns us that even the law of God was made for man's benefit, not that man was made for the sole observance of laws Matt2:27). We are commanded not to uphold or teach as law the "traditions of men" above the laws of God (Matt 7:13; Col 2: or to even reject the laws of God because of the traditions of men (Matt 7:8-9).

I say this because most of this marriages are not only observed in the traditional ceremonies but also often solemnized in church as the final blessing. So the question is this, why bring something to the house of God for validation having built it on a foundation solely of self and flesh?

You may not answer but let's ponder pls.

safarigirl:
She should shut the phuck up or take her useless rant to her father's compound.

So, she could not say this trash to her father's face when they were draining the husband, but she has the gall to carry the matter to FB and disgrace her entire family compound? I hope they disown her if someone from her place comes across this post. Let us see who she will run to when her own suffering begins since she assumes Igbo women are suffering in their marriages


Useless child, they should have dashed her free to the unfortunate husband of an uncultured wife