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Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. / Help Anytime I Get Angry I Destroy Things / My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by TYKLINTYZA(f): 7:43pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Its like you have ego issues. If you are a christian, get closer to Jesus n His words n you will find all the answers because He is our peace. Recall that He left all His heavenly glory to be humiliated, despised, rejected by all n eventually crucified for our sins. Yet He forgave us all. At least those annoying you have not done that much to you. A problem told is half solved. Since you have identified the problem, determine not to give anybody the benefit of annoying you. Trivialize those issues and make excuses for them n forgive even before they apologise. Look at the sunny side of every issue. smile more, sing more, cry out for help to the Holy Spirit in fasting n prayer n what will result is a better you. May His grace be with you always. 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Hiswordmylife: 7:47pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
All what u described was just a picture of who I was but all these changed when I gave my life to christ and was baptised in the holy ghost. To disappoint you, I believe u need to give Jesus Christ a trial and let him work on you. He will help you out as he did with my life from bin an introvert to an extrovert preaching the gospel with love and willing and ready to help others.why not try Jesus today. God bless you |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by venus4cupid: 7:52pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
AntiWailer: This is the best response so far from all posts related to this issue. I have thesame issue and this response is what got me going on.... 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by PapiFlin(m): 7:55pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Op are you an only child? And try and find a hobby(like watching a particular sport like football) just for fun. Associate with people regardless of how much they hurt you and know that whatever they do that hurt you is just a revelation of their shortcomings (which you obviously got). And don't ever underestimate the power of prayer. 1 Like |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by BigBizzy(m): 7:56pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
no be your fault, Na so the country be |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by oyekan1997(m): 7:56pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Alpha001: Bro if you don't mind, I have a book that will really help you on a long run in understanding and controlling your temperament and the way you act. It is a book titled why you act the way you do by TIM LAHAYE. 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Prakash247(m): 7:57pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Oluromantic: Tell us about your mom,how is she coping.? |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Prakash247(m): 8:00pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
5thAngel:Shut up you this boy.he asked for advice and you went on a spree of irrelevancies.Who says guys dont suffer acute personality disorder??Be careful,make I no change am for u. |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Dexnuel(m): 8:00pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Anything that steals your joy isn't of God because the bible says the devil come to steal, kill and destroy.. Trust me, this act will hinder your prayer alot.. Since you're fed up with this weakness,start praying against it...demolish every arguments and pretensions that set itself against the knowledge of God in your life.. Tell God to soften your act whenever people offend you.. #KeepFightingBro#,you will triumph.. |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
I know that feeling, that rage.... I am exactly like you. I am an introvert as well. Sometimes I find it hard to stop thinking. Other times I just make up scenes in my mind where someone annoys me and I hurt them badly. It is actually a sign of depression. Try to get a job that eats a lot of your time as soon as possible before your condition deteriorates. 1 Like |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Prakash247(m): 8:04pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Bidobado1: You are stupid my brother.You haven't spoken to your mom and sister for over 3 years and you are comfortable with it?...Infact,you are very stupid,add me to that list now.Dont ever talk to me in your life again.what nonsense!! |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Fxwarrior: 8:08pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
JhyMedex: I was trying to lighten the mood. Don't take everything too serious. Seems you got an attitude. Its a new year I won't contend this with you Mr Intelligent. |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by 1Sharon(f): 8:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
GODPUNISHUNA: Not every thread is for TROLLING 1 Like |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by emelda86(f): 8:10pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
I'm like you o...I don't forgive easily too n I keep malice alot its not good but.... |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
1Sharon: Who said I was trolling? I don't give backhanded compliments. I rather say it as it is. Some may like it, others may not. Happy New Year |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Learn to speak up. If someone hurt you , tell the person so. A first step is learning to speak up and let people know how you feel. |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Daeylar(f): 8:14pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
GODPUNISHUNA: Armchair psychiatrist How far your diagnosis na? It's no longer schizophrenia, It's now schizoid abi? This is why I told op to ignore you, Someone will soon bring up another diagnosis and you'll agree with him. Lol Playing with diagnosis and jumping from one personality disorder to the other, SMH, Something is off with you and people like you who think it is acceptable to rattle off armchair diagnoses to people just like that. 4 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Daeylar: Okay I am coming for you Just wait I will soon bring your own diagnosis 3 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Let me first wish everyone a Happy New Year it happens sometimes but the good thing is you notice it and some don’t. My love can be like that sometimes but I’ve learnt to be a little patient with and also not take it too personal. You can start by opening up on how you feel when things are done to you so the person knows the extent but don’t be too angry and adopt my policy of never going to bed angry ...that’s the reality of love your allowed to huff and puff like today I Did was about to give up but before I sent my long ass dismissal email a wave of calm came over me the friendship or relationship is more important to me than my ego and you too we all just need to be more patient with each other I’m serious I was about to send my email sermon when his mail came in and I just said to myself some people are just worth giving second chances to and worth the dialogue to straighten issues |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by 0079jaBond(m): 8:22pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
I will recommend that you welcome the Holy Spirit to take charge of you |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by frozen70(f): 8:23pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Alpha001: You have tried to identify your problems, it's time to brace up and adjust yourself You have to learn to give room for people's stupidity because it's there stupidity that brings mis understanding with you and them Learn to tolerate, accommodate and accept people the way they are Start mixing up with people, make new friends and exchange contracts The earlier you start adjusting the better for you because if you continue this your solo life women will deal with you indirectly 2 Likes |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Makz: 8:24pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Oluromantic:best advice op |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
op we are on the same shoes, but the only difference is that of getting angry easily but all others you mentioned I have the same traits with you Just try control yourself, no one can do that for you except you alone |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by clems88(m): 8:41pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
EbukaHades10:hmm. I learnt that recently. Cos it always causes misunderstanding between I n my fiance |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by JhyMedex: 8:42pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Fxwarrior:well I'm sorry I came off to hard..Mayb I've got schizo too..Lol.. |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Johilo(m): 8:52pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
EbukaHades10:thumbs up man, you're on point |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by PeacenLove2: 9:00pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
You are taking everything too seriously .... learn to see how ridiculous everything is ... including yourself and LAUGH ... it doesn't have to be funny to you right now. Fake it till you make it. One day, it will stick. Loosen up, make friends, start with a smaller circle, weed out some extremeties and grow from there. Hey, we're all humans, that's why we are not perfect. And in my experience, trouble always find those who avoid it the most. Maybe be daring a bit and that will reduce. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Johilo(m): 9:04pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
emmabest2000:bobby don'y give a Bleep |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Tchalz(m): 9:05pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Na so we plenty? |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Johilo(m): 9:06pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Sellfish:oga u're indeed sellfish to be posting such tin on dis thread.... Didn't u read d topic bfore commentin? |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
IamD18:And that makes it less a problem? |
Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by OgogoroFreak(m): 9:12pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Alpha001:All you need is a good toto. |
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