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Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Mekozoral: 10:42am On Apr 07, 2012
Gud mornin all, i'm a 28yrs old beautiful woman, devoted christian, gud job nd a virgin, but recently i've got a really big problem,when i get up early in d mornin 2get prepared 4work i get very Hot, it's nt like i read or watch sexual arousal books or movies cos my job takes all my time but i don't know why i feel dis way, i delibrately stayed of datin 4like 8yrs now so as 2 concentrate on my studies but while i was in sch neva had dis feelin why now? Even when i was in a relatnship yrs back wen i was 20yrs, i neva enjoyed d touching he'll beg nd beg b4 i manage 2giv him a kiss, but as i type dis now, i can't wait 4a man's touch, is dis normal, am i not sinning against God because it's not until u get intimate with a man b4 u commit fornicatn, thinking about it alone is a sin, i had 2come out with dis cos dis morning is worst 4me, God know if a man made an attempt 2touch me i'll fall, 4som1 like me now who has always hope 2present myself as a gift 4my man on my wedin night nd considerin my current predecament, pls my peeps if i acept to go out with d guy who has been on my neck for som months now, what strategy can i use so dat i don't sleep with him till my weddin night cos, i'm really havin a big struggle with my hormones, even though he his a perfect gentle guy, i'm scared of myself cos d way i feel lately, i hope i won't be d one 2beg him 2make love 2me, pls hw do i contol myself.Matured,Honest nd sincere advice, i'll take insults as part of d advice cos human think differntly. Thanks.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by mimicue(f): 11:15am On Apr 07, 2012
Your matured enof to av a boyfriend so if you like the guy go out wiv him and make it clear to him howyour feeling now and what u want and dunno want if he loves u he will understand what ur going tru therefore wouldn't push it.. And as for you try to control urself if ur not ready and if u eventually go out wiv him don't do things dah will tempt u to do wah u will regret and I fink d minute problem is you need a man.. U need a boyfriend once u av one u will see dah u won't be yearnin for a manz touch again... And also pray for God to guide u in whateva u do... Good luck wiv dat

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by TisaBone: 11:18am On Apr 07, 2012
mimicue: Your matured enof to av a boyfriend so if you like the guy go out wiv him and make it clear to him howyour feeling now and what u want and dunno want if he loves u he will understand what ur going tru therefore wouldn't push it.. And as for you try to control urself if ur not ready and if u eventually go out wiv him don't do things dah will tempt u to do wah u will regret and I fink d minute problem is you need a man.. U need a boyfriend once u av one u will see dah u won't be yearnin for a manz touch again... And also pray for God to guide u in whateva u do... Good luck wiv dat

very good advice you gave her.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by tasandra: 11:21am On Apr 07, 2012
Sweety,i understand hw u feel but,i still advice u wait till ur weddin night wink winki pray it shld be soon :Durbaby boi s goin to be very proud of u...all the best.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Mekozoral: 11:33am On Apr 07, 2012
@ mimicue nd tasandra , thanks so much, i'll put what u've said 2use, it's noted. Thanks
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by pinkydaisy(f): 12:10pm On Apr 07, 2012
Wish i!

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by tellwisdom: 12:19pm On Apr 07, 2012
I wont advise you until you yansh me angry angry
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by seanie(m): 12:23pm On Apr 07, 2012
Lol! Interesin smileyLol! Interesin
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by mashnino(m): 12:24pm On Apr 07, 2012
28 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!

dats sum real ish


dnt worry u ve fornicated alredy...

if i can recall shey pastor chris said masturbating is not a sin...try it na...
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 12:42pm On Apr 07, 2012
don't u love playing computer games? it will help take off ur mind from the feelings. stop watching romantic or love films, concentrate on news channels like: CNN, Aljazeera, BBC, Geographical channel, etc, they will make u focus on global issues than on romance. if u don't want to have sex now don't go on a date, cos it will surely happen; forget how much good or innocent guys will come claiming here, its a big lie! the guy will surely bleep u and especially if he notices this your present mood which he must. So to say, just stay away from dates, but if u must go on a date, make it lunch dates and let it end in the afternoon and don't go to his house or allow him to visit u either. stop reading romance novels or books for now and read career books and newspapers. try and make more female friends of similar status and build passion hanging out with them. but all the same, men no longer attach much value to virginity now unlike before. but I am not saying you should allow yourself to be devirgined since u are enjoying the idea already. Goodluck in what u chose.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by pendo89(f): 12:56pm On Apr 07, 2012
But at 28 my honest advice seeing that you intend to marry,is try to get involved in a relationship.
Reason being it takes time to work one before you decide.
Be spiritually natural bcz if you fail to appreciate your natural side,you are gonna end up old,desperate and take anything in trouser that comes along.
And all this being to devoted in God talk doesn't really matter.No it doesn't and it doesn't please God either if you fail to do the right thing at the right time.
The hot feeling is normal and hormonal so accept it,love it but don't act on it yet.Control it be keeping busy cz it will pass after a day or two.

wait a sec,Do you consider yourself a virgin gift to ur future husband or as a partner?
Gifts are unwrapped and used.At times we forget about them till we see them again ie if they are durable.
But a partner is part and parcel of our lives.They are involved in everything we do and we value their input.
My lil advice is don't hold yourself too long because you are a 'gift'. you are almost 30 rem and still fighting nature.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by cynthiafred67(f): 12:59pm On Apr 07, 2012
tellwisdom: I wont advise you until you yansh me angry angry

^^^^ very funny
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by tellwisdom: 2:09pm On Apr 07, 2012
cynthiafred67:

^^^^ very funny

Is it?? embarassed embarassed
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by KevinII(m): 2:24pm On Apr 07, 2012
Mekozoral: Gud mornin all, i'm a 28yrs old beautiful woman, devoted christian, gud job nd a virgin, but recently i've got a really big problem,when i get up early in d mornin 2get prepared 4work i get very Hot, it's nt like i read or watch sexual arousal books or movies cos my job takes all my time but i don't know why i feel dis way, i delibrately stayed of datin 4like 8yrs now so as 2 concentrate on my studies but while i was in sch neva had dis feelin why now? Even when i was in a relatnship yrs back wen i was 20yrs, i neva enjoyed d touching he'll beg nd beg b4 i manage 2giv him a kiss, but as i type dis now, i can't wait 4a man's touch, is dis normal, am i not sinning against God because it's not until u get intimate with a man b4 u commit fornicatn, thinking about it alone is a sin, i had 2come out with dis cos dis morning is worst 4me, God know if a man made an attempt 2touch me i'll fall, 4som1 like me now who has always hope 2present myself as a gift 4my man on my wedin night nd considerin my current predecament, pls my peeps if i acept to go out with d guy who has been on my neck for som months now, what strategy can i use so dat i don't sleep with him till my weddin night cos, i'm really havin a big struggle with my hormones, even though he his a perfect gentle guy, i'm scared of myself cos d way i feel lately, i hope i won't be d one 2beg him 2make love 2me, pls hw do i contol myself.Matured,Honest nd sincere advice, i'll take insults as part of d advice cos human think differntly. Thanks.

all this long story mekozoral come to my bedroom i want to show you something. you will enjoy it i swaar. am waiting

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 4:03pm On Apr 07, 2012
cugresources: don't u love playing computer games? it will help take off ur mind from the feelings. stop watching romantic or love films, concentrate on news channels like: CNN, Aljazeera, BBC, Geographical channel, etc, they will make u focus on global issues than on romance. if u don't want to have sex now don't go on a date, cos it will surely happen; forget how much good or innocent guys will come claiming here, its a big lie! the guy will surely bleep u and especially if he notices this your present mood which he must. So to say, just stay away from dates, but if u must go on a date, make it lunch dates and let it end in the afternoon and don't go to his house or allow him to visit u either. stop reading romance novels or books for now and read career books and newspapers. try and make more female friends of similar status and build passion hanging out with them. but all the same, men no longer attach much value to virginity now unlike before. but I am not saying you should allow yourself to be devirgined since u are enjoying the idea already. Goodluck in what u chose.
couldn't have said it better myself, GBAM!!
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by dokunbam(m): 4:37pm On Apr 07, 2012
You are now a woman, u beta get laid before kongi kill u
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by cowgurl: 4:44pm On Apr 07, 2012
U yearning cos u feelin d urge 2 get laid, strong n temptin ryt? But d switest part is, u'l b gettin laid because u want 2 not because som guy sweet-talked u into it lik dy alwys do n dis leaves no rum 4 regrets but den again, wat's d rush? U'v held out 4 28 yrs now, u stil can if u wanna wait 4 dat hubby of urs. Good luck gurl.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by KevinII(m): 4:53pm On Apr 07, 2012
cowgurl: U yearning cos u feelin d urge 2 get laid, strong n temptin ryt? But d switest part is, u'l b gettin laid because u want 2 not because som guy sweet-talked u into it lik dy alwys do n dis leaves no rum 4 regrets but den again, wat's d rush? U'v held out 4 28 yrs now, u stil can if u wanna wait 4 dat hubby of urs. Good luck gurl.
cowgirl come to my crib let me show you something. you will love it please leave the cow at the door. am waiting

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by cowgurl: 4:57pm On Apr 07, 2012
Kevin_II:
cowgirl come to my crib let me show you something. you will love it please leave the cow at the door. am waiting
shoo! Go play somwerelse lil kelvin.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by KevinII(m): 5:01pm On Apr 07, 2012
cowgurl: shoo! Go play somwerelse lil kelvin.
what is that suppose to mean. i gat big things to show you you will cry haleloya like gordons i swaar. am waiting

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 5:22pm On Apr 07, 2012
Present yourself as a gift on your wedding night, lol. What will your husband present?
You have come a long way at 28, what's a few more years. you can do it, keep those silky panties on.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 5:23pm On Apr 07, 2012
cugresources: don't u love playing computer games? it will help take off ur mind from the feelings. stop watching romantic or love films, concentrate on news channels like: CNN, Aljazeera, BBC, Geographical channel, etc, they will make u focus on global issues than on romance. if u don't want to have sex now don't go on a date, cos it will surely happen; forget how much good or innocent guys will come claiming here, its a big lie! the guy will surely bleep u and especially if he notices this your present mood which he must. So to say, just stay away from dates, but if u must go on a date, make it lunch dates and let it end in the afternoon and don't go to his house or allow him to visit u either. stop reading romance novels or books for now and read career books and newspapers. try and make more female friends of similar status and build passion hanging out with them. but all the same, men no longer attach much value to virginity now unlike before. but I am not saying you should allow yourself to be devirgined since u are enjoying the idea already. Goodluck in what u chose.

LOL at some of these. Some good points...
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Excelboi(m): 5:40pm On Apr 07, 2012
4ck him and shut up!

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Homar(m): 5:54pm On Apr 07, 2012
@op if you continue to have the urge you can masturbattee to remove the urge and go on your normal life . Masturbation helps people to prevent having sexx . But be warned if you turn an addict it will be difficult to stop .

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 8:47pm On Apr 07, 2012
Excelboi: 4ck him and shut up!
Lwkmd. But nawa 4 you oo!
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Killz1(m): 9:28pm On Apr 07, 2012
Excelboi: 4ck him and shut up!
You are a what? A fool!

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by bisi16(m): 9:31pm On Apr 07, 2012
1st, self service is not advisable. 2nd, u are virtuous woman to still be a virgin at 28, but by this age, u shld have a frnd. Not necessarily an intimate 1 but some1 u can rely on, some1 who makes u smile, respects u. D decision 2 break d nut shld be totally urs, when u are ready. But if u ask me, I'd say hang 4 a lil longer. Keep it 4him, coz being a man, I knw I'd be very proud if I marry a virgin.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Flashaldrin(m): 9:39pm On Apr 07, 2012
Get married and fast!

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Beync(f): 9:56pm On Apr 07, 2012
Op u r almost there, don't do the deed till the deal is done. U know what I mean. If u hav a young man who has been on ur neck, give him a chance and if he's right for u and propose marriage go with him and present the gift ASAP
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Mekozoral: 10:23pm On Apr 07, 2012
@ all thanks so so much
@ bisi16 -thanks my broda, masturbation will be d last tin i'll do, hw 2go about it i don't even know,i've got a male friend,a very matured friend i share my feelins with but he's out of d country we only get 2talk once a while but i truly appreciatw ur care nd concern.
@ Flashaldrin- yes i'll in God's own time, i can't wait though.10x
@ Excelboi- 10x for ur share
@ Homar - 10x 4ur contributn, i'm grateful.
@ cowgurl - 10x my sista
@ dokunbam- God will put a smile on my face soonest. Thanks.
@ pendo - thanks so so much my sista, i'm grateful.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 10:43pm On Apr 07, 2012
Ur in heat. Pray to God for a partner . Ur a woman so suitors must be chasing u most of the time.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 11:14pm On Apr 07, 2012
@op, let me share a true life story with you.
There was this devoted catholic lady. She was a virgin just like you for many years and she was well known for that as her parents used to brag about it to everyone both in the church and beyond. One day, it happened that this young lady was found dead in her bedroom, naked.
What happened? We were told that this lady had died of electrocution. Believe it or not she was electrocuted by the massive electric vibrator she had bought for herself which she uses to masturbate. Strange right?
Well, take this from me, the reason for this was due to the fact that all those hormones which she had been 'suppressing' within herself for all those years that she was still a virgin had simply been building up to incredible heights, which would torment her in the future. Which eventually did. But for the fear of what her parents, church members and other people would say if they heard that she was roaming around campus with men and coupled with the fact that her fiance was only going to come and marry her when she had finished her university education, she had the urge to get herself a Love Machine (which would later turn out to be her demise) because she was now no longer able to control or curb her urge for sex any longer. She just had to hit it and she had to hit it 'hard'. Probably the pleasure she was deriving from using that vibrator on herself was not like anything she had ever imagined, and then she just wanted more so she probably increased the vibration of the vibrator to dangerous levels that obviously led to her death. True right?
My advice for you? See, i didnt go through the stress of using my alphanumeric keypaded phone to write all these just to discourage you, all i want is for you to know your strengths and weaknesses and stay within your limits. Dont just because of what people would say push yourself to lenghts which would exceed your natural limits or boundaries. Because when you are suffering the consequences, they would only be there to tell your story.
Remember, this story is as real as it comes; it actually happened a few years back, bareley 8yrs ago to be precise. So pls choose wisely my dear and may God guide you
Thanks.

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