pendo89:

Will talk to you as a fellow christian.You wanna know what pleases God? Its called Faith not Virginity. Bible says for without faith its impossible to please God.
Now that faith is not limited to virgins/non. If you are faithless virgin you cannot please God no matter what you do.Pleasing God is a lifestyle that must be manifested through our work,relationships,talk and daily living not only abstaining.
When you abstain from fornication you are not doing God a favour but yourself.The body is the temple and any sin against it becomes a stumbling block.Makes it really hard to commune with God.That's the purpose.
Now get things into perspective. 'Presenting yourself as a gift to your hubby' is no guarantee that marriage will work.I hope hes also gonna present himself as a gift.Are we gifts or partners? cz my bible says that we should present ourselves as living sacrifices to God (not man) holy and acceptable which is our reasonable sacrifice.Nway.You got to bring something extra cz virginity goes in less than a min.Marriage is to last forever.Can you pay more attention on what will keep it going after the hymen is gone?
Men tend to forget easy.Other important things in marriage make them forget the whole you were a virgin thing.Its hardwork now.
I wish you could set your priorities right.
That said,its great you have not defiled yourself.Just don't use it as a weapon to put yourself in bondage now or in future.
Appreciate the feelings cz they are normal.Shows you are a woman and ready for sex.

blogger1.0:
@op, let me share a true life story with you.
There was this devoted catholic lady. She was a virgin just like you for many years and she was well known for that as her parents used to brag about it to everyone both in the church and beyond. One day, it happened that this young lady was found dead in her bedroom, naked.
What happened? We were told that this lady had died of electrocution. Believe it or not she was electrocuted by the massive electric vibrator she had bought for herself which she uses to masturbate. Strange right?
Well, take this from me, the reason for this was due to the fact that all those hormones which she had been 'suppressing' within herself for all those years that she was still a virgin had simply been building up to incredible heights, which would torment her in the future. Which eventually did. But for the fear of what her parents, church members and other people would say if they heard that she was roaming around campus with men and coupled with the fact that her fiance was only going to come and marry her when she had finished her university education, she had the urge to get herself a Love Machine (which would later turn out to be her demise) because she was now no longer able to control or curb her urge for sex any longer. She just had to hit it and she had to hit it 'hard'. Probably the pleasure she was deriving from using that vibrator on herself was not like anything she had ever imagined, and then she just wanted more so she probably increased the vibration of the vibrator to dangerous levels that obviously led to her death. True right?
My advice for you? See, i didnt go through the stress of using my alphanumeric keypaded phone to write all these just to discourage you, all i want is for you to know your strengths and weaknesses and stay within your limits. Dont just because of what people would say push yourself to lenghts which would exceed your natural limits or boundaries. Because when you are suffering the consequences, they would only be there to tell your story.
Remember, this story is as real as it comes; it actually happened a few years back, bareley 8yrs ago to be precise. So pls choose wisely my dear and may God guide you
Thanks.

lalaosky:
nice post.though u r not 100% correct buh d maturity ur post oozed makes me hapi...kip it up.u neva disappoint with ur advice

mayordy:
outright nonsense!..dnt knw why it hurts u so much dat she wants to give it as a gift to her hubby.
Pls OP..dnt listen to some people who will come here nd start twistin d words of d bible dat we knw very well jst to suit their status nd push u to do wrong. See, God has a plan for u nd wnt let u choose wrong..He sees wat u'r goin tru nd jst wana see hw strong u r,dnt relent nw nd dnt let some people's comment drag u into a lifetime regret. Its hard bt try nd may God help you.

pendo89:

Will talk to you as a fellow christian.You wanna know what pleases God? Its called Faith not Virginity. Bible says for without faith its impossible to please God.
Now that faith is not limited to virgins/non. If you are faithless virgin you cannot please God no matter what you do.Pleasing God is a lifestyle that must be manifested through our work,relationships,talk and daily living not only abstaining.
When you abstain from fornication you are not doing God a favour but yourself.The body is the temple and any sin against it becomes a stumbling block.Makes it really hard to commune with God.That's the purpose.
Now get things into perspective. 'Presenting yourself as a gift to your hubby' is no guarantee that marriage will work.I hope hes also gonna present himself as a gift.Are we gifts or partners? cz my bible says that we should present ourselves as living sacrifices to God (not man) holy and acceptable which is our reasonable sacrifice.Nway.You got to bring something extra cz virginity goes in less than a min.Marriage is to last forever.Can you pay more attention on what will keep it going after the hymen is gone?
Men tend to forget easy.Other important things in marriage make them forget the whole you were a virgin thing.Its hardwork now.
I wish you could set your priorities right.
That said,its great you have not defiled yourself.Just don't use it as a weapon to put yourself in bondage now or in future.
Appreciate the feelings cz they are normal.Shows you are a woman and ready for sex.

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Wish you best of luck in your future plans ...

webdezzi: Poster, this is not the stone age, your future hubby is not a virgin, so why keep it for him?
on the average[b] a modest man does 15 different girls before marriage,[/b]
if you want to refrain from sex for other reasons, pls go ahead, but for a future man? Please dont. Konji kills.

it wont change anything about how he sees you.
well he could sing about your chastity for year 1 or 2, dont think he wont scroll through your messages in year 3


moreover, at 28, you should know your fiance by now, choose wisely and delay giving him.

dokunbam: You are now a woman, u beta get laid before kongi kill u

ENEONWO: You are in the heat period. Why do you opt for suppression, which is unnatural? The urge for sex is natural, just as that food, to urinate, to defecate, etc. God isnt interested in your flesh & blood! Its the heart that matters. Sexual continence doesnt further spiritual growth. Once its a natural urge, & its not overdone, its no sin. God works in nature. You have take care of your body by acquising to its natural desires. The whole trouble to keep your virginity will end in just one night & in less than 10 minutes. And who wants a virgin for a wife?

Mekozoral: .......... what strategy can i use so dat i don't sleep with him till my weddin night cos, i'm really havin a big struggle with my hormones, even though he his a perfect gentle guy, i'm scared of myself cos d way i feel lately, i hope i won't be d one 2beg him 2make love 2me, pls hw do i contol myself......

Tropilo:

I wonder how many volts a battery will have to electrocute a full grown human? Was the gadget connected to a PHCN sub-station?
Your advice is INSINCERE and even WORSE when you manufacture stories to prop ur INSINCERITY.

mashnino: 28 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!

dats sum real ish


dnt worry u ve fornicated alredy...

if i can recall shey pastor chris said masturbating is not a sin...try it na...