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| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by rman: 11:25pm On Apr 08, 2012 |
@OP GO AND MARRY!!! Don't listen to all these kids on nairaland telling to keep or fight the urge at 28yrs You claimed you are through with studies and stuffs so what else should you be doing than dating and having fun. In fact, those telling you to avoid men, erotic stuffs and romantic stuffs want you to have a miserable sex life. I find it funny when some are eveb suggesting fasting and prayers. They should have fasted and prayed to God to prevent the feminine features from manifesting when they were growing since virginity seems to be a kind of ultimate goal. At this stage of your life, you should be thinking of losing it fast sef. 1 Like |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by DExplorer1: 11:46pm On Apr 08, 2012 |
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| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by KgSolomon: 12:38am On Apr 09, 2012 |
@Poster what u need is a spiritually advice, and you have to seek it in the right place. Only a spiritual minded person can give u such like your pastor not nairalanders. Don't allow your urges to control u rather u control it, but u can tame your body with the word of God that's if you are a born again. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by ajn: 12:40am On Apr 09, 2012 |
pls dear,u really need a relationship but u mustn't do anything stupid,28yrs isn't a day walk. u're feeling what u should feel @ ur age. nothing is wrong with u, it's a normal thing. relate ur feelings with dat ur guy if u truely trust him, but don't do dat in a "convenient place". finally, u need Jesus to help u in such situation. if u're not yet walking with Him pls begin the walk today. dat's when ur virginity will make a meaning. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Ekhan1(m): 1:01am On Apr 09, 2012 |
pinkydaisy: Wish i wuz a virgin! the deed's bn done already and cant be changed. Ask for God's forgiveness and pray u marry a man who'll take u as u are irrespective of ur past. Dont despair. Me i'm praying hard to marry a virgin . |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Ekhan1(m): 1:04am On Apr 09, 2012 |
28 yrs and a virgin...wow, very impressive. My dear, ur hot cake, pls dont loose that virginity till marriage. Be strong for the devil will tempt u hard, just be strong and marry as a virgin. There's greater joy bn deflowered by ur hubby. God's on ur side, dont despair and dont fail Him. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by deko24: 2:36am On Apr 09, 2012 |
d poster aint even replyin anymore. wonder why every1 is still talking. i doubt shes even readin dis. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by erniewhez(m): 4:30am On Apr 09, 2012 |
after reading cugresources reply, i seize to read no more. i became cognisance of him in a tribal marriage thread and he really disappointed me. but i must commend him for ds advice he gave u. baby uve come ds far, dnt blow it now. dnt ever accept a man is gentle until after years of marriage. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by leeland(m): 4:54am On Apr 09, 2012 |
R u keepin it 4 d man,or its written in d bible,my advise is to avoid romantic movies,alcholic drinks n romantic places dat can turn u on.Pray 2 GOD 2 teach n guide u.Pls dnt go 4 self service,it doesn't pay. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by anonymus111(m): 5:19am On Apr 09, 2012 |
D-Explorer: who be dis one. u r d-ediot for ur statement. so i have no right to comment becuz na ur papa n flash papa build nl from d scratch. i no wan wash u, make everyone stay on their lane and face wetin carry dem come here. anytime i find u commenting in a thread, i will criticize u too since u dnt mind ur business olofofo na my comment carry u come dis thread or d op......... mumu no face wetin u dey do anony comes here to have fun if u r having issues with fun i will lend u a helping hand to slaughter ur miserable life since u cant take a joke......... for real life na woman half my age go dey use u do kickboxing abt like boy boy with one tshirt and trouser una go carry nl dey flex muscles.............. who is looking for attention for nl na here be heaven u r a daft murra fu cker dt needs to breast feed d fouth time for proper set of teeth, people count millions in real world wetin nl go fetch me.... suya meat watch ur words nt everyone takes here so seriously na fun. mumu what if d op is jst fiction or fakestory like other dt have fooled nl in d past una too dey carry dis place personal lifemust suck in real life. how do u know the sincerity of d thread, can u vouch wit ya lifeplease shut d bleep us jare. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Zicmat: 7:53am On Apr 09, 2012 |
tasandra: Sweety,i understand hw u feel but,i still advice u wait till ur weddin night |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by oraclefemi(m): 8:52am On Apr 09, 2012 |
this girl is seeking attention jare, this virgin thing is so old school and overhyped..i dont want no boring virgin rubbish in bed.. if youre Hot its normal, sex is normal, its even overhyped, go and Bleep and get on with it.. next |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by GChux1: 9:55am On Apr 09, 2012 |
tasandra: Sweety,i understand hw u feel but,i still advice u wait till ur weddin nightYour baby boy who has done it severally with diff girls would be so proud of u. Go get a bone if you feel this way often. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by buoye1(m): 10:04am On Apr 09, 2012 |
u shld be careful |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Naruto87(m): 10:16am On Apr 09, 2012 |
u truely ar an interesting young woman.lets be friends i curious how you achieved such a peak.congrates. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 10:30am On Apr 09, 2012 |
Wow! So such girls still exist in naija.My advise is that u keep ur chastity cause it is not easy to find a virtous woman.Even the Bible confirms this:a virtous woman who can find? |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Decryptor(m): 10:47am On Apr 09, 2012 |
bisi16: coz being a man, I knw I'd be very proud if I marry a virgin.I don't ever pray to marry a virgin cos the last time i de.flowered one, i ended up with a bruised joystick! WTF!!  1 Like |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by olowolekan(m): 11:23am On Apr 09, 2012 |
You have patiently waited for 28years! But the devil want to open you to attack and kill you so that you go to hell and yet you seem not to know it.Why not ask God to strengthen you during this your periliou time.If you fail in the time of adversity your strenth is small says the word of God.The Lord who has kept you for 28years is still alive.Go to Him and ask for Help.It's only Him who can help you.People will ill advise you but the Lord who knows the end from the beginning will never lead you astray.Pray,pray and pray so that you will not enter into temptation.May the Lord help you in Jesus name. olowolekan@yahoo.com |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by debinter(m): 11:36am On Apr 09, 2012 |
O girl u av tried in dis ur endurance exercise, now I strongly advise u consider getin into a rlatnship. At ur age u av surmounted the chastity issue and av triumphed, now's d tym to get settled. D longer u prolong d harder it'll b 4 u to get married and present d gift u've bin keepin for dat special dude. Cheers |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Dokintaoge: 12:58pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
Dear, the feeling is normal, God put it there for a reason. Don't even think of masturbating, dating or rushing into marriage just for the urge. Underlisted are some of my reasons Masturbating- it may become a must do thing anytime the urge comes up. If u decide 2 date any man now, i'm afraid u can't cope cos d urge will now be greater whenever u sees the man and lastly don't rush into marriage just 2 get rid of d urge, remember marriage is a life time journey. My candid advice is that u should try and reduce the urge by >do wat u like doing best anytime d urge comes. >pray 4 God to give u a life partner. >don't stay with men at odd hours as to avoid regret and lastly don't share this with any man dat u're feeling somehow for cos men can be silly most times. Thanks |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by koife(m): 1:28pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
pray for Gods strength only....he the only one wu undrstnds u......am sure he'l ansa u soon |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by iiiyyyk(m): 1:28pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
one thing we lack so much in this 21st century is truth. if any man tells u he doesn't value virginity he is lying. how many men have you seen marry prostitutes. they will be the same people that will abuse a woman, telling her she has been over used or her mileage is too high. igbo people have a saying that when evil stay many years in a community it becomes a norm. the lack of virgins in our society today has become a norm. that dosen't mean men doesn't value virginity. contrary, a man will respect you if he meets you at this age still a virgin. That being said, it is important to note that being a virgin dose not make a woman a good wife material, it surprises me that a girl of your age is not in a very serious relationship or may be planning your marriage. i will advice you look inwardly at your relationship with people and also the standards your setting for the man you ar expecting. you most note that 90% of women don't end up marrying the perfect dream man. you most be aware that virginity is a secret virtue, hence dose not bring real men cos no one sees it, what brings real men is real personality and character. My advice to you is this, becareful, it will be very dangerous to your personality if after keeping something for 28 yrs you didn't use it for the purpose you kept it for. if you mistakenly break that virginity b4 marriage, you will hate your self for very long time if not for ever. it will cast a very serious doubt on all your values.....etc every religion or worship in this world practice one thing in common. weakening their flesh for them to hold strong on their beliefs. Christians, muslims, judaism, hindus etc practice it. most religion call it fasting, weather with prayer or not, fasting has one basic funtion, subdueing the desires of the flesh. so fast for sometime,it will help kill the immediate feelings, and make hay while the sun shine. Look for a responsible man and marry, he might be the next president of nigeria. had someone told patience 20 yrs ago that jonathan will one day be a deputy governor she won't have believed, not to talk of the president of nigeria. shine your eye time wait for nobody. a woman is like a flower. 1 Like |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Mekozoral: 2:12pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
GOOD AFTERNOON ALL, I GUESS IT'S TIME TO SAY THANK U 2ALL MY ANONYMOUS FATHERS, MOTHERS, BROTHERS, SISTERS AND FRIENDS IN D HOUSE, THANKS 4BEING THERE 4ME. FOR CLEARITY PURPOSE I DIDN'T COME HERE 2 ANNOUNCE MY STATUS AS A MAIDEN OR SEEK ATTENTION, ONLY WANTED 2KNOW IF MY FEELING 4A MAN'S TOUCH IS NORMAL AS A CHRISTIAN WHO'S FOCUS HAS ALWAYS BEEN TO PLEASE GOD, BUT I'VE GOT MORE THAN ENOUGH ADVICE ON THIS, I EXPECTED A MIXED REACTION 2MY POST SO TO THOSE WHO GAVE OUT INSULTS, I STILL WANA THANKS U. GOD WILL SURELY GUIDE ME IN WHATEVA DECISION I MAKE AND WILL SURELY BE BACK 2GIVE HIM GLORY ON THIS FORUM SOONEST. 1 Like |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Ainafadekemi: 2:13pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
Mekozoral. How far? I understand Ur plight. Am also slightly in Ur shoe, only that I have a guy in my life. My first advice to U is not to try self service. Next is dat Ur physiology is getting the better of U. I'd ask if the yearning is a pattern; if yes then U nid 2 know that whenever U av that feeling, then U are mostly either approaching Ur ovulation or approaching Ur menstruation. Itz a bit different in women. In all this, my simple advice is this, pray to God earnestly to give U a husband to whom U can present Urself as a gift to him. Who says Men don't like virgins, that person is a big liar. Dropin my case now. U can beep me on 08060020496 or 07085284339 lets get along 2 C how we can help ourselves. Takia |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by knowledge4(m): 4:04pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
YOU SAID THAT YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN DEVOTED TO THE LORD AND HAS DELIBERATELY ABSTAINED FROM DATING,SEX AND ROMANCE IN ORDER TO PRESENT YOURSELF AS A GIFT TO YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND WHICH IS RIGHT IN LINE WITH SCRIPTURE.YOU ARE A RARE EXAMPLE AND A GLOWING TESTIMONY OF A FAITHFULNESS.WHAT WE HEAR AND SEE THESE DAYS ARE 13 OR 15 YEAR OLDS INVOLVING IN PREMARITAL SEX.THAT YOU ARE 28 YEAR OLD AND A VIRGIN IS A WONDER OF WONDERS IN THIS ADULTEROUS GENERATION. WHAT YOU SAY YOU ARE GOING THROUGH IS NATURAL.2NDLY,IT IS TEMPTATION FROM THE DEVIL TO MAKE YOU SLIP INTO SIN. IN ORDER NOT TO FALL INTO THE SIN OF PREMARITAL SEX AND FORNICATION WHICH YOU HAVE CONSCIOUSLY AVOIDED FOR SO LONG,YOU HAVE TO MOVE CLOSER TO THE LORD IN PRAYER.THROUGH THE POWER OF PRAYER,YOU WILL OVERCOME THOSE FEELINGS TEMPTING YOU TO SIN AGAINST YOUR GOD.THE SPIRIT IS WILLING BUT YOUR FLESH IS WEAK.THROUGH PRAYER,YOUR SPIRIT WILL OVERRULE THE FLESH. DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED,SISTER. CONTINUE TO TRUST IN THE LORD AND HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH. IS THE BROTHER PESTERING YOU FOR ROMANCE? IF HE IS,WATCH IT! ARE YOU SURE HE IS YOUR GOD ORDAINED HUSBAND? IF HE IS A TRUE CHRISTIAN,HE WILL NOT BE PESTERING YOU FOR PREMARITAL SEX. YOU MUST BE SURE THAT HE IS YOUR GOD ORDAINED HUSBAND. AVOID EVERY APPEARANCE OF SIN OR SITUATIONS THAT CAN MAKE YOU COMMIT FORNICATION. GOD IS FAITHFUL WHO HAS KEPT YOU THUS FAR AND IS ABLE TO CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU IF YOU ALLOW HIM |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by knowledge4(m): 4:04pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
YOU SAID THAT YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN DEVOTED TO THE LORD AND HAS DELIBERATELY ABSTAINED FROM DATING,SEX AND ROMANCE IN ORDER TO PRESENT YOURSELF AS A GIFT TO YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND WHICH IS RIGHT IN LINE WITH SCRIPTURE.YOU ARE A RARE EXAMPLE AND A GLOWING TESTIMONY OF FAITHFULNESS.WHAT WE HEAR AND SEE THESE DAYS ARE 13 OR 15 YEAR OLDS INVOLVING IN PREMARITAL SEX.THAT YOU ARE 28 YEAR OLD AND A VIRGIN IS A WONDER OF WONDERS IN THIS ADULTEROUS GENERATION. WHAT YOU SAY YOU ARE GOING THROUGH IS NATURAL.2NDLY,IT IS TEMPTATION FROM THE DEVIL TO MAKE YOU SLIP INTO SIN. IN ORDER NOT TO FALL INTO THE SIN OF PREMARITAL SEX AND FORNICATION WHICH YOU HAVE CONSCIOUSLY AVOIDED FOR SO LONG,YOU HAVE TO MOVE CLOSER TO THE LORD IN PRAYER.THROUGH THE POWER OF PRAYER,YOU WILL OVERCOME THOSE FEELINGS TEMPTING YOU TO SIN AGAINST YOUR GOD.THE SPIRIT IS WILLING BUT YOUR FLESH IS WEAK.THROUGH PRAYER,YOUR SPIRIT WILL OVERRULE THE FLESH. DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED,SISTER. CONTINUE TO TRUST IN THE LORD AND HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH. IS THE BROTHER PESTERING YOU FOR ROMANCE? IF HE IS,WATCH IT! ARE YOU SURE HE IS YOUR GOD ORDAINED HUSBAND? IF HE IS A TRUE CHRISTIAN,HE WILL NOT BE PESTERING YOU FOR PREMARITAL SEX. YOU MUST BE SURE THAT HE IS YOUR GOD ORDAINED HUSBAND. AVOID EVERY APPEARANCE OF SIN(eg touchery,kissing,shaking hands,hugging etc) OR SITUATIONS THAT CAN MAKE YOU COMMIT FORNICATION BEFORE YOU WED. GOD IS FAITHFUL WHO HAS KEPT YOU THUS FAR AND IS ABLE TO CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU IF YOU ALLOW HIM. YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO MARRY AND MARRIAGE IS ONE OF THE REASONS TO AVOID FORNICATION(1 CORINTHIANS 7:9) YOU SHOULD CONSIDER GETTING MARRIED BUT BEFORE THE WEDDING DAY,STAY OFF PREMARITAL SEX UNTIL THE WEDDING NIGHT. SEEK GODLY COUNSEL FROM THE COUNSELLING UNIT OF A BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH.THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE BEFORE COMING TO THIS FORUM. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by afm4ever(m): 4:18pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
my dear don't be deceived am a virgin @ 23 i will keep it till my wedding night 4 my wife to be but it only takes d grace of God to do so but dat's d promise i made to my self |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by badesco(m): 6:49pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
From my calculation you will probably like 28 0r so. i want you to remember one thing,that you are a grown up woman and age is not on your side which i think is not advantage to you.If care is not taken, you may find it hard to get a single person to marry, which invariably means you will probably settle for a married man, and am sure you know what that means.My advice to you is to go all out now and settle down, for real you cant get a man taht will not demand sex from u. make haste when the sun shine. |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by akinolasam: 7:30pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
@ OP. If you are really interested in staying remaining a virgin until u are married, then make sure you stay away from the ROMANCE SECTION on NL else "they" will dis-virgin you with their advice before the next four months. Anyway, just my little advice oh! |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by joudini(m): 9:35pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
The man you want to marry or wish to marry, is he a virgin? If not, this is double standard. Only a male virgin deserves a female virgin. If you have suppressed your bodily feelings and enviromental reactions for a man, its only logical for such a man to be worthy of it (read: male virgin). Insist on a virgin or stop playing the virginity line. Of all the troubles that might rock a marriage, why is greater emphasis placed on a skin covering the vaginah? |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by sashaa(f): 9:50pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
pendo89:dis is some good stuff |
| Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Ekhan1(m): 10:47pm On Apr 09, 2012 |
Aina fadekemi: Mekozoral. How far? I understand Ur plight. Am also slightly in Ur shoe, only that I have a guy in my life. My first advice to U is not to try self service. Next is dat Ur physiology is getting the better of U. I'd ask if the yearning is a pattern; if yes then U nid 2 know that whenever U av that feeling, then U are mostly either approaching Ur ovulation or approaching Ur menstruation. Itz a bit different in women. In all this, my simple advice is this, pray to God earnestly to give U a husband to whom U can present Urself as a gift to him. Who says Men don't like virgins, that person is a big liar. Dropin my case now. U can beep me on 08060020496 or 07085284339 lets get along 2 C how we can help ourselves. Takia for me, marrying a non virgin is more like a case of eating a left over food in a restaurant. I am seriously praying to get married to a virgin. Fadekemi, keep in touch with the poster, u guys shld get along well. God be with you. |
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