I have an information for you. Send a blank mail to me at. joebol2011@mail.com

pinkydaisy: Wish i wuz a virgin!

It is neva too late ma dear just abstain from s.ex completely from now on. Lol

Send ur details to me. Add me up on facebook - VICTOR LAWSON (victorval4u@yahoo.com). Am a 32yrs old bachelor. Am nt on BB chat bt i occasionally join 2go and d username is preston01. Am Waiting!

This is what is called temptation..its only when you fall that it becomes a sin. So my advice to you is to hold yourself, try and concentrate on getting married very soon. Your feelings now is also determined by some powerful hormones..meaning your body is speaking to you. There might also be risks of fibroid, hypention induced pregnancy etc if you fail to take cognizance of your feelings.

Lagusta: Let me be frank nd serious wit u; d only thing i respect about my wife is dat i married her a virgin. All men respect virgins, cos they believe they don't exist. So 4 u being a virgin @ 28, I TROWAY SALUTE OOO!!!
U said u wanna keep it 4 ur husband, fine. But till when? @28, u need a hustle, and fast, or u may lose dat precious gift of urs to sum1 that dosent deserve it.
PEACE!!!

I pity your wife,smh.

@OP: You better go f.uck make u feel good. Emi l'oko l'owo oh! Incase, just PM me.

I will advice u take 2 fasting, real fasting i mean, i.e u eat b4 dawn like 5.30am and abstain from eating and drinkin till sunset. believe me it will reduce ur urge, u can fast at least twice a week. Its a proven technique.
BUT d ultimate solution is 2 get married ASAP

@op if you no do the thing quick quick your toto go block o,na the thing wey dey cause fallobian tube be that o

I suggest the moderator should close this thread now. If I was this girl I won't even know what to be doing again because these guys are just posting confused suggestions. For me, my problem is not even how you are going to manage yourself staying the virgin you ever wanted but the man that is going to disvirgin you. First, the man is not going to be a saint so why giving out your virginity to a man that is not a saint? I think it would'nt even worth it and again, don't tell me your hubby won't like to 'taste' you before paying your dowry and if that be, what makes you feel this man may not just 'form' to take advantage of you and thereafter start misbehaving which that would subsequently make you a slave to love? Atleast, i've heard of marriages that collapse even on the wedding day --the man just dissapear into thin air! I pray that doesn't happens to you. And finally, I really know how you feel now, pray nobody in NL knows you for real, I know how bad guys here are and they can just 'arrange' and work up to you pretending to be the real niggi and you may fall! How would you even know the real guy now as you are getting hotter and hotter inside as the day passes? Don't even feel you can really take your mind off any lewd thing now because the more you try to do that the more they'll come to your mind and the more you'll be making your life more boring ...and fruastration may even set in and you may even fall sick and at the tale end your hubby may not even be able to disvirgin you again because you may be found suffering from Vaginismus which may require you to be flown abroad for treatment. Pray real hard baby!!!

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@op, let me share a true life story with you.
There was this devoted catholic lady. She was a virgin just like you for many years and she was well known for that as her parents used to brag about it to everyone both in the church and beyond. One day, it happened that this young lady was found dead in her bedroom, naked.
What happened? We were told that this lady had died of electrocution. Believe it or not she was electrocuted by the massive electric vibrator she had bought for herself which she uses to masturbate. Strange right?
Well, take this from me, the reason for this was due to the fact that all those hormones which she had been 'suppressing' within herself for all those years that she was still a virgin had simply been building up to incredible heights, which would torment her in the future. Which eventually did. But for the fear of what her parents, church members and other people would say if they heard that she was roaming around campus with men and coupled with the fact that her fiance was only going to come and marry her when she had finished her university education, she had the urge to get herself a Love Machine (which would later turn out to be her demise) because she was now no longer able to control or curb her urge for sex any longer. She just had to hit it and she had to hit it 'hard'. Probably the pleasure she was deriving from using that vibrator on herself was not like anything she had ever imagined, and then she just wanted more so she probably increased the vibration of the vibrator to dangerous levels that obviously led to her death. True right?

Remember, this story is as real as it comes; it actually happened a few years back, bareley 8yrs ago to be precise. So pls choose wisely my dear and may God guide you
Thanks.

Guy, u dey lie FirE!!!!

What kinda battery was the machine using?! 100-volt transformer?! oga curb this mendacious and utterly fallacious nature abeg!

i don laff tire o!
@pendo, I salute your maturity in dealing with issues, especially when you're on d opp. Kip d groove dear.
@wackJ, I disagree wiv some of ya view but I lyk ya sincerity. Kudos!
@OP, it's normal 4 u 2 xperience dat cos we are all sexual beings (weda born again or born against). Many av gone thru same and many are still going thru it. When my friend got in2 a relationship wiv her hubby, she had d same and told guy and dy both handled it through God's help without trangressing till dy got married. Same thing wiv ma friends of same sex (all of us are nt married except though). Ma advice is dt u can't handle it alone but with ur Makers help, u won't fall off d path. If u get invovled wiv oda activities, d energy will be diverted to dt activity but atimes our hormones can be stubborn too. Just proceed wiv a determined and purposed mind just as Daniel and Joseph did.
All is well dear!!!

ifyalways:
I'm a mother of 3 boys but if i fancy virginity anyday,it costs less than 50K to get the ish back.

Is the presence of hymen the only proof of virginity? The hymen can be easily be broken by strenuous exercise. And what about the men, is there any physical way of telling which man is a virgin? The issue of virginity in marriage is about knowing that your spouse is the first to know you sexually.

ifyalways:
I cant stop wondering why most virgins(well,all'em virgins always start one "helep my virginity thread" or the other on nld) are unmarried @ 27 yrs and above.One should expect them to be hot cupcakes.

@OP,At 28,you should be doing 2 things:
Hitting the dating scene seriously.Go out and meet like male singles.As a woman,virgin or no virgin,you have an expiration date for marriage.

How dare you say that one has an expiration date for marriage? Speak for yourself because some people have seen their bodies like honey that can't go bad.

My dear,its a good thing dat u wea able to keep ur sef all these while,also u need gods guidance in dis situation. But @ 28 i think u should get involve in a serious relationship that may probably lead to marriage cus ur body is sending the signal already to avoid some bad guys taking advantage of u. I bet u ur husband will respect u if he meet u a virgin.

pendo89:

Will talk to you as a fellow christian.You wanna know what pleases God? Its called Faith not Virginity. Bible says for without faith its impossible to please God.
Now that faith is not limited to virgins/non. If you are faithless virgin you cannot please God no matter what you do.Pleasing God is a lifestyle that must be manifested through our work,relationships,talk and daily living not only abstaining.
When you abstain from fornication you are not doing God a favour but yourself.The body is the temple and any sin against it becomes a stumbling block.Makes it really hard to commune with God.That's the purpose.
Now get things into perspective. 'Presenting yourself as a gift to your hubby' is no guarantee that marriage will work.I hope hes also gonna present himself as a gift.Are we gifts or partners? cz my bible says that we should present ourselves as living sacrifices to God (not man) holy and acceptable which is our reasonable sacrifice.Nway.You got to bring something extra cz virginity goes in less than a min.Marriage is to last forever.Can you pay more attention on what will keep it going after the hymen is gone?
Men tend to forget easy.Other important things in marriage make them forget the whole you were a virgin thing.Its hardwork now.
I wish you could set your priorities right.
That said,its great you have not defiled yourself.Just don't use it as a weapon to put yourself in bondage now or in future.
Appreciate the feelings cz they are normal.Shows you are a woman and ready for sex.

Kai! Ur wisdom is worth more than gold!
. . . . . (But not more than oil-block sha)
Very well said, God bless you!

I'll advice you hold on a little longer for that night. I know its hard now but trust me once you pup it will be ten times harder. best wishes.

[quote author=cowgurl]U yearning cos u feelin d urge 2 get laid, strong n temptin ryt? But d switest part is, u'l b gettin laid because u want 2 not because som guy sweet-talked u into it lik dy alwys do n dis leaves no rum 4 regrets but den again, wat's d rush? U'v held out 4 28 yrs now, u stil can if u wanna wait 4 dat hubby of urs. Good luck gurl.

DO YOU MEAN FOR ANOTHER 28 YEARS??

mimicue: Your matured enof to av a boyfriend so if you like the guy go out wiv him and make it clear to him howyour feeling now and what u want and dunno want if he loves u he will understand what ur going tru therefore wouldn't push it.. And as for you try to control urself if ur not ready and if u eventually go out wiv him don't do things dah will tempt u to do wah u will regret and I fink d minute problem is you need a man.. U need a boyfriend once u av one u will see dah u won't be yearnin for a manz touch again... And also pray for God to guide u in whateva u do... Good luck wiv dat

Well said!

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Will talk to you as a fellow christian.You wanna know what pleases God? Its called Faith not Virginity. Bible says for without faith its impossible to please God.
Now that faith is not limited to virgins/non. If you are faithless virgin you cannot please God no matter what you do.Pleasing God is a lifestyle that must be manifested through our work,relationships,talk and daily living not only abstaining.
When you abstain from fornication you are not doing God a favour but yourself.The body is the temple and any sin against it becomes a stumbling block.Makes it really hard to commune with God.That's the purpose.
Now get things into perspective. 'Presenting yourself as a gift to your hubby' is no guarantee that marriage will work.I hope hes also gonna present himself as a gift.Are we gifts or partners? cz my bible says that we should present ourselves as living sacrifices to God (not man) holy and acceptable which is our reasonable sacrifice.Nway.You got to bring something extra cz virginity goes in less than a min.Marriage is to last forever.Can you pay more attention on what will keep it going after the hymen is gone?
Men tend to forget easy.Other important things in marriage make them forget the whole you were a virgin thing.Its hardwork now.
I wish you could set your priorities right.
That said,its great you have not defiled yourself.Just don't use it as a weapon to put yourself in bondage now or in future.
Appreciate the feelings cz they are normal.Shows you are a woman and ready for sex.

By far the most mature and on point response I've seen. To the others advising a full grown 28 year old woman to stay off mags, romantic movies, dating and the lot. List
En to yourselves please! She's 28! 1hat this lady needs even more than sex is some maturity. You're no longer 18 or 20 lady. You're a grown woman. Get yourself a date. If you like him, let him have it. Stop feeling like an ice princess. Don't know what people see in virginity and virgins. You always have to teach them everyting. And with the advice our virgin is getting here wit people telling her to stay of mags and films, I wonder how she'll learn and prepare for that time on her wedding night. In summary, start dating, if you like the guy, sleep wit him and have fun.

My dear I pray that God should give u the spirit of discernment to handle d advice some pple give on this forum, especially my fellow guys. That being said, I want to tell u that I understand d position u find yourself at dis time, but I encourage u never to give up at dis eleventh hour because of how u feel or what pple say. The path u have chosen to take is that which only a handful of pple in our present society take because of d erosion of norms and values. The bible tells us not to grow weary in doing what is right, for in due time we shall hv d reward, if we don't give up.(GAL 6:9) hear this, if Joseph had succumbed when faced with a similar trial u're facing now and accepted a quick pleasure and relief that Potiphar's wife offered him on a platter of gold, I don't think he would hv become a prime minister. God has package a wonderful reward 4 u, if u don't give up. I urge u my dear to build urself up spiritually, read ur bible regularly, listen to d word of God on tape (even on ur phone), spend ur free time in fellowship with d brethren, find a godly sister in ur church(fellowship) and confide in her and let her pray with u. If u must hv a date with ur male friend, pls make it a lunch date, if u must visit him, go in company of 2 sisters. Above all, don't give lust any room in ur heart. Guide ur heart with all diligence for out of it spring forth d issues of life{Prov 4:23}

Where is born2fuck

Foolish way that most nigeria usually think: if I marry a virgin, then I've got a wife and most of them here are from ,,3rd Dumut'' that is to say your mother didn't have time for this shit you all cry about here..F.uck that shit if you are being pround of being Virgin, for me it's lack of opportunity or a high degree of stupidity due to the high incendious from the holy bible.

I kill real shit and don't have time for Virgin. They are too boring.I love character and faithfulness in a woman and there is no Virginity in my world.

My Advice to you is stick to any guy who you think or love you and play along side with him and stop giving the bullshit of I will only have sex on my first day of my wedding, what make you think you will live with this man forever and that you will not marry another man, and if the case should be like that what do the other guy say then? my dear stop being foolish and live life and don't let life live you.

Do we nigerian notice that we try to be holier than the west world but we are still the most currupt people in the world? na we know God pass even the white man that wrote the Bible do shit but black man mumu will always last forever. If you like curse me, that am not a true christain but we are still very stupid in other word.

If you have a gentleman asking for your hand. What is keeping you from saying yes to him already . I don't get that part.

maclatunji: If you have a gentleman asking for your hand. What is keeping you from saying yes to him already . I don't get that part.

I mean marry the guy.

My dear first advice for you is to hang in there. Believe me, sex is best within the confines of marriage. I think what you painted is what any normal lady would feel. It also points to the fact that you're ripe for marriage. As regards going out with this guy its best to define things before you commence any relationship. This i did with my wife and it truly helped. Never listen to those that recommend masturbation, that in itself is bondage.

Lastly I recommend you meet a trusted female mentor to talk with and free you mind, also take this matter to the Lord. just my 2 cents.

Beta is d end of a mata dn d begining,try prayn more in d holy ghost wen u wake up in d morn.D urges is natural but u mst ovacom it 4 no temptatn v cease xcpt wat is common 2 man,it is tyme 2 let a man in2 ur life but make sure both of u talk abt d issue n agree neva 2 do it until ur wedding nite it has got 2 b a mutual agreement.God will c u thru.

Virgin or not, why should a lady that intend to get married be single at 28?. . .Get some love!

Op,keep yourself 4 ur husband. He would appreciate it. Ur kind is rare. At least u are not second hand babe like most babes. Most guys wil do anything to marry someone like you. If there were many of ur kind,guys would be getting married. Guys are scared of these sluts we have everywhere.

@post:That would have been a lovely gift to your hubby on una wedding night! for me,it's sex with someone I love.

The ultimate thing in marriage is true love and not the 'virginity'. If your husband meets you a virgin and ends up not loving, the marriage is as good as dead. Mind U, it's a good thing to keep urself for your husband but can your virginity guarrante a good husband?
I would advise you to be prayerful, be more positive and hope for the best. Let me ask, if u are trying to keep urself and an unfortunate thing happens resulting in the loss of ur priced asset, are u going to commit suicide? Remember, shi.ts happen to believers as well.
The ball is in your court, you know how U fellowship with ur God and U know with prayers, miracles still happen. I pray God will give you ur husband who will love you for who you are.

Mekozoral: Gud mornin all, i'm a 28yrs old beautiful woman, devoted christian, gud job nd a virgin, but recently i've got a really big problem,when i get up early in d mornin 2get prepared 4work i get very Hot, it's nt like i read or watch sexual arousal books or movies cos my job takes all my time but i don't know why i feel dis way, i delibrately stayed of datin 4like 8yrs now so as 2 concentrate on my studies but while i was in sch neva had dis feelin why now? Even when i was in a relatnship yrs back wen i was 20yrs, i neva enjoyed d touching he'll beg nd beg b4 i manage 2giv him a kiss, but as i type dis now, i can't wait 4a man's touch, is dis normal, am i not sinning against God because it's not until u get intimate with a man b4 u commit fornicatn, thinking about it alone is a sin, i had 2come out with dis cos dis morning is worst 4me, God know if a man made an attempt 2touch me i'll fall, 4som1 like me now who has always hope 2present myself as a gift 4my man on my wedin night nd considerin my current predecament, pls my peeps if i acept to go out with d guy who has been on my neck for som months now, what strategy can i use so dat i don't sleep with him till my weddin night cos, i'm really havin a big struggle with my hormones, even though he his a perfect gentle guy, i'm scared of myself cos d way i feel lately, i hope i won't be d one 2beg him 2make love 2me, pls hw do i contol myself.Matured,Honest nd sincere advice, i'll take insults as part of d advice cos human think differntly. Thanks.

Mekozoral:
@ greateros, dat was a nice 1 from u, i don't know how 2 highlight/copy ur post i wud hav done so,@ poster kindly heed to d advice of greateros, though it's a very bitter experience but if u still wana hold him, do it d legal way, Meanwhil hav u 4gotten Karma? he wud have paid for nd probably still paying for what he did dat night.

I was a victim of abuse too from 3 different men b4 i was 9yrs, first was my step broda, he came visiting us i was happy 2see him nd i sat on his laps in d compound afta somtime when it became dark nd there was no light he inserted his finger into my virgina, i felt some pain but i just coldn't tell him to stop i thing i was arround 3-4yrs then but later stopped when he heared som1's footstep it wasn't dat he later threatned me not 2tell but i just had d fear of keeping it 2myself, anoda was a man who came 2 for som house fittings he, i was alone in d house but suddenly i didn't know what came ova him but i still remeber very well dat somtin stood still in his trouser nd was rubbing his hands all ova me my body but i spanked his hands nd ran outside yet i cud not tell anybody, d last was d worst of it all may be he's a gay a teacher nd a neighbour, we usually go 2his place for lesson he held me down nd dug his manhood in my anus, i thinks i should be arround 7yrs when this happened he continued in nd out till he finally stoped, i wasn't myself for days but i still could nt open up nd i don't know why but dis i think has a psychological effect on me now cos as i type dis i'm 28yrs nd i can't let anyman touch me, my hymen is still intact nd i'm a maiden, i had just 1 boyfriend in mylife nd broke up wit him 8yrs back nd eva since then i've nt given any man anoda chance. But i know they'll pay for all they did.

OK, you are not an anal virgin eh? Anyway, sebi men will "pay for all they did" to you; why are you yearning for their touch again?