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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by eyenCalabar(m): 11:22pm On Apr 07, 2012
mashnino: 28 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!

dats sum real ish


dnt worry u ve fornicated alredy...

if i can recall shey pastor chris said masturbating is not a sin...try it na...

You are talking total rubbish. Stop quoting Pst. Chris wrongly.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Excelboi(m): 11:33pm On Apr 07, 2012
Killz.:

You are a what? A fool!
Your albino gened grandfada...

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by okwubanego580: 11:33pm On Apr 07, 2012
It is usual to feel that way by someone in your state. You think you are very busy and engaged in no extra curricula activities that should bring up this situation. You may not be completely right. Am not a psychologist neither am i a physician, but i think God kind of hardwired human physiology to his psychology. Thus, these hormones you talked about are activated by your state of mind and the result is your intense feeling of sexual pleasure. You read no seductive books and watch no dirty movies, yet your mind is always glued on the fact that you haven't had a feel of this for the first time. Sometimes, you fantasizes the act and try to picture how you 'd feel like to have it done one day. Unfortunately, that day seemed long and indeterminate to you, leaving you with often feeling to venture into that pleasurable world that is still unknown to you. The simple remedy is for you to work on your mind and think less of the much talked about sex.Period!

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Killz1(m): 11:56pm On Apr 07, 2012
Excelboi: Your albino gened grandfada...
Your grandfather is an albino?
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by nsstories: 12:42am On Apr 08, 2012
People should be serious abeg. This woman is 28 years old. It is perfectly normal for her to want sex. She's approaching the peak of sexuality maturity and evolution has programmed her to want a mate. Get yourself some contraception, and then go out and get some with a nice guy. Don't let your pastor brainwash you into thinking that you are doing the wrong thing. Sex is GOOD!
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by anonymus111(m): 4:34am On Apr 08, 2012
op u bi glorified fool who do i think ya are to be teeling an nonconsistent story. ya said ya stayed off relationship for 8 years to focus on studies how many years be yar own degree becuz law and medicine sef no reach like dt. 8 years to focus on studies haba dem no carry ya go check whether na spirit husband dey worry ya...........abi ur own 8 years study was customized for d level of ya brain e fit be a topic takes u a year to decipher............... ya said ya last relationship at 20 u no gree kiss, wetin happen to d relationship u free d guy based on 8 years leave to focus on study. ya parents no fit sing marriage for ya hear fpr 8 years. omo after 8 years na now kongy dey scratch ya for toto..................... ya know what ur case don pass nl, i dnt know y members feel d need to give bo bo or fake gist what would it benefit una. oga seun how u take dey allow different aro patient for here very soon members go dey pack shit chop for here.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 6:14am On Apr 08, 2012
Wats wit all †ЂΞ gift & virginity thingy anyway! I will nt put myself tru any kind of torture FƠ̴̴̴̴͡я̲̅ anyone. I love mylife & dnt care wat anyone thinks! @op, keep livin Ūя̲̅ life FƠ̴̴̴̴͡я̲̅ someone O̶̲̥̅̊к̲̣̣̥.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Mekozoral: 8:07am On Apr 08, 2012
@ annonymus11_1 : check out d concludin part of my post i said insult is welcom cos pple reasn differntly,datz ur own interpretatn of d whole writeup, there's no point convincin u 2believe my story cos either u believe it or nt it doesn't change anything. what i want frn pple, i already got.
@ boyloaf - thanks: i'm nt delibrately puttin myself through torture 2please my future baby but i'm tryin 2leave my life in line with God's standard 2make my creator happy, i only said i wana present it as gift 2my boo on my wedin night.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Flashaldrin(m): 10:01am On Apr 08, 2012
anonymus11_1: op u bi glorified fool who do i think ya are to be teeling an nonconsistent story. ya said ya stayed off relationship for 8 years to focus on studies how many years be yar own degree becuz law and medicine sef no reach like dt. 8 years to focus on studies haba dem no carry ya go check whether na spirit husband dey worry ya...........abi ur own 8 years study was customized for d level of ya brain e fit be a topic takes u a year to decipher............... ya said ya last relationship at 20 u no gree kiss, wetin happen to d relationship u free d guy based on 8 years leave to focus on study. ya parents no fit sing marriage for ya hear fpr 8 years. omo after 8 years na now kongy dey scratch ya for toto..................... ya know what ur case don pass nl, i dnt know y members feel d need to give bo bo or fake gist what would it benefit una. oga seun how u take dey allow different aro patient for here very soon members go dey pack shit chop for here.
this guy is a sensational award winning hediot! Best ignored.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by deekseen(m): 10:12am On Apr 08, 2012
OP

I don't know what you were thinking
staying off guys and relationships for 8 years only to return when you're having this seriously strong urge - you made yourself the prey.

What you are going through now is not temptation, it's very normal. If you give in to that feeling now then you should be ready to give in to it whenever it comes again.

You bury yourself in your work and when it's time for fresh air your body wants a man's touch. Try attending social functions or gatherings as often as possible. If you can, do some exercises when you wake up to make good use of that early morning adrenaline.

You should start dating again soon, but becareful not to be alone in secluded places or spend the night with him. I'm sure 7 out of 10 guys will understand your situation, and if you talk to them about doing the right thing as regards your faith (waiting till your wedding night) they will wait. But getting the 1 out of them is your task now.

And note that your system timer is passing some strong info to you - you need a man in your life ASAP, else . . .
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by pendo89(f): 10:35am On Apr 08, 2012
Mekozoral: i'm tryin 2leave my life in line with God's standard 2make my creator happy, i only said i wana present it as gift 2my boo on my wedin night.

Will talk to you as a fellow christian.You wanna know what pleases God? Its called Faith not Virginity. Bible says for without faith its impossible to please God.
Now that faith is not limited to virgins/non. If you are faithless virgin you cannot please God no matter what you do.Pleasing God is a lifestyle that must be manifested through our work,relationships,talk and daily living not only abstaining.
When you abstain from fornication you are not doing God a favour but yourself.The body is the temple and any sin against it becomes a stumbling block.Makes it really hard to commune with God.That's the purpose.
Now get things into perspective. 'Presenting yourself as a gift to your hubby' is no guarantee that marriage will work.I hope hes also gonna present himself as a gift.Are we gifts or partners? cz my bible says that we should present ourselves as living sacrifices to God (not man) holy and acceptable which is our reasonable sacrifice.Nway.You got to bring something extra cz virginity goes in less than a min.Marriage is to last forever.Can you pay more attention on what will keep it going after the hymen is gone?
Men tend to forget easy.Other important things in marriage make them forget the whole you were a virgin thing.Its hardwork now.
I wish you could set your priorities right.
That said,its great you have not defiled yourself.Just don't use it as a weapon to put yourself in bondage now or in future.
Appreciate the feelings cz they are normal.Shows you are a woman and ready for sex.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Killz1(m): 10:47am On Apr 08, 2012
^^^
I'd have started a nice convo on what you wrote up there, but i'm running late. . . I'll be back later. wink
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by mayordy(m): 11:03am On Apr 08, 2012
pendo89:

Will talk to you as a fellow christian.You wanna know what pleases God? Its called Faith not Virginity. Bible says for without faith its impossible to please God.
Now that faith is not limited to virgins/non. If you are faithless virgin you cannot please God no matter what you do.Pleasing God is a lifestyle that must be manifested through our work,relationships,talk and daily living not only abstaining.
When you abstain from fornication you are not doing God a favour but yourself.The body is the temple and any sin against it becomes a stumbling block.Makes it really hard to commune with God.That's the purpose.
Now get things into perspective. 'Presenting yourself as a gift to your hubby' is no guarantee that marriage will work.I hope hes also gonna present himself as a gift.Are we gifts or partners? cz my bible says that we should present ourselves as living sacrifices to God (not man) holy and acceptable which is our reasonable sacrifice.Nway.You got to bring something extra cz virginity goes in less than a min.Marriage is to last forever.Can you pay more attention on what will keep it going after the hymen is gone?
Men tend to forget easy.Other important things in marriage make them forget the whole you were a virgin thing.Its hardwork now.
I wish you could set your priorities right.
That said,its great you have not defiled yourself.Just don't use it as a weapon to put yourself in bondage now or in future.
Appreciate the feelings cz they are normal.Shows you are a woman and ready for sex.


pendo89:

Will talk to you as a fellow christian.You wanna know what pleases God? Its called Faith not Virginity. Bible says for without faith its impossible to please God.
Now that faith is not limited to virgins/non. If you are faithless virgin you cannot please God no matter what you do.Pleasing God is a lifestyle that must be manifested through our work,relationships,talk and daily living not only abstaining.
When you abstain from fornication you are not doing God a favour but yourself.The body is the temple and any sin against it becomes a stumbling block.Makes it really hard to commune with God.That's the purpose.
Now get things into perspective. 'Presenting yourself as a gift to your hubby' is no guarantee that marriage will work.I hope hes also gonna present himself as a gift.Are we gifts or partners? cz my bible says that we should present ourselves as living sacrifices to God (not man) holy and acceptable which is our reasonable sacrifice.Nway.You got to bring something extra cz virginity goes in less than a min.Marriage is to last forever.Can you pay more attention on what will keep it going after the hymen is gone?
Men tend to forget easy.Other important things in marriage make them forget the whole you were a virgin thing.Its hardwork now.
I wish you could set your priorities right.
That said,its great you have not defiled yourself.Just don't use it as a weapon to put yourself in bondage now or in future.
Appreciate the feelings cz they are normal.Shows you are a woman and ready for sex.


outright nonsense!..dnt knw why it hurts u so much dat she wants to give it as a gift to her hubby.
Pls OP..dnt listen to some people who will come here nd start twistin d words of d bible dat we knw very well jst to suit their status nd push u to do wrong. See, God has a plan for u nd wnt let u choose wrong..He sees wat u'r goin tru nd jst wana see hw strong u r,dnt relent nw nd dnt let some people's comment drag u into a lifetime regret. Its hard bt try nd may God help you.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Mekozoral: 11:17am On Apr 08, 2012
@ pendo : it's nt like i attach so much importance 2my being untouched as criteria 2 a happy married life but it's just dat while growin up i just personally developed a concept of stained bedsheet on weddin night dis was all b4 i cam in contact with jesus christ nd his father cos i wasn't raised in a religious home,but a personal decision. Thanks anyway.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Mekozoral: 11:34am On Apr 08, 2012
@ mayordy, thanks so much. I'm grateful
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Lagusta(m): 11:43am On Apr 08, 2012
Let me be frank nd serious wit u; d only thing i respect about my wife is dat i married her a virgin. All men respect virgins, cos they believe they don't exist. So 4 u being a virgin @ 28, I TROWAY SALUTE OOO!!!
U said u wanna keep it 4 ur husband, fine. But till when? @28, u need a hustle, and fast, or u may lose dat precious gift of urs to sum1 that dosent deserve it.
PEACE!!!

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by TruthTella(m): 12:21pm On Apr 08, 2012
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go through the stress of using
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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by jmoore(m): 12:24pm On Apr 08, 2012
pendo89:
You got to bring something extra cz virginity goes in less than a min.Marriage is to last forever.Can you pay more attention on what will keep it going after the hymen is gone?
Men tend to forget easy.Other important things in marriage make them forget the whole you were a virgin thing.Its hardwork now.
I wish you could set your priorities right.


Why do people talk like this? Do you think virgins that wait till marriage don't have other good qualities?
The fact is that self-control is very essential in a relationship and if you can't abstain from s-e-x before sex, there are chances you might commit adultery when you are married.

Don't generalize when you call Men. I am a man and if I found out the night after our wedding that I am the only man that my wife had sex with, that cannot be forgotten.

The way some people see virginity is not the way others see it. Here we are talking about him or her being the first one you are intimate after a holy union(marriage).
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by TruthTella(m): 12:24pm On Apr 08, 2012
Lagusta: Let me be frank nd serious wit u; d only thing i respect about my wife is dat i married her a virgin. All men respect virgins, cos they believe they don't exist. So 4 u being a virgin @ 28, I TROWAY SALUTE OOO!!!
PEACE!!!
@bolded, na wa for you. Which kain marriage be that.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 12:27pm On Apr 08, 2012
Poster, this is not the stone age, your future hubby is not a virgin, so why keep it for him?
on the average a modest man does 15 different girls before marriage,
if you want to refrain from sex for other reasons, pls go ahead, but for a future man? Please dont. Konji kills.

it wont change anything about how he sees you.
well he could sing about your chastity for year 1 or 2, dont think he wont scroll through your messages in year 3


moreover, at 28, you should know your fiance by now, choose wisely and delay giving him.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Austinio: 12:32pm On Apr 08, 2012
Watch ur heart nd thinkin. Sexy tins of d past keeps comin back 2 u (pic). Get close 2 bible.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 12:34pm On Apr 08, 2012
Am sorry to say that at 28yrs and still a virgin, you will hardly find a tender youngman who will value what you call virginity. Go and have sex and start a relationship. You might be surprised that the so-called husband you wanna keep virginity for is a bloody fucker
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by paparazy09(m): 12:35pm On Apr 08, 2012
I need to see you.Can I?
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by austinsmat(m): 12:37pm On Apr 08, 2012
pinkydaisy: Wish i wuz a virgin!
u can't eat ur cake and have it back
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Louteelaw84: 12:41pm On Apr 08, 2012
At this point of ur life u got to have self control cos for many at 28 the pressure start coming from all angles abt marriage and stuffs so when you date choose wisely and make intentions known to partner I'm sure there are a lot of good heart men that will wanna stay and receive ur gift...you just need the compatible one goodluck.

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by pendo89(f): 12:41pm On Apr 08, 2012
Mekozoral: @ pendo : it's nt like i attach so much importance 2my being untouched as criteria 2 a happy married life but it's just dat while growin up i just personally developed a concept of stained bedsheet on weddin night dis was all b4 i cam in contact with jesus christ nd his father cos i wasn't raised in a religious home,but a personal decision. Thanks anyway.

You are such a nice person. Go ahead and give that gentleman a chance then.The time is ripe.Its great to have a man of morals by your side because he will not pressure you into doing stuff that may contradict your faith.

Will tell you one thing dear,even though people look down upon virginity,it saves one a lot of relationship heartaches.Its easy to handle many things but not a broken heart esp when one has given themselves to random guys.I have heard that,I have practised that and I say what I practice.Whether it works or not,that is not really my stress cz it has worked for me.The respect you have for your maker makes you respect and honour ur body.
You are 28.Many girls by 18 have slept with so many men they have lost count.Its fun they will say but it erodes some value (disputable)but I know it does.
It's not even about the husband you marry even though some men cherish it.Its more about you and your overall emotional,spiritual and psychological well being.

Go for it.Date and enjoy

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Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by coderXO(m): 12:43pm On Apr 08, 2012
@op, try to hold on. don't give in.

You are naturally feeling that "passion" because you are at
the age.

You sort of have to just open yourself up and be more accessible.
Yet you still have to be firm about your beliefs and values.

The right guy will come about soon.
You'd be surprised there is one young man in your church or neighborhood who
is not bold enough to approach you.

However don't expect that he might be a saint or virgin like you.

You have to kiss many frogs to find your prince.

Be well.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by iksmoore(m): 12:43pm On Apr 08, 2012
Do you know that most people are virgins not necessarily they wanted it but they do not have an opportunity to eat the forbidden fruit.Virginity to me is not a big deal cos it does not guarantee a home.Again, you as the husband will need to spend months even years to teach her many different positions that wiil make IT enjoyable.Never mind,its natural for you to feel that way cos thats what makes you a human being.But try get yourself a boyfriend who you can always open up to.l think he can always help whenever you are yearning for a masculine touch.cheers.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by pendo89(f): 12:46pm On Apr 08, 2012
jmoore:


Don't generalize when you call Men. I am a man and if I found out the night after our wedding that I am the only man that my wife had sex with, that cannot be forgotten.

Noted and nice.
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by Nobody: 12:47pm On Apr 08, 2012
dokunbam: You are now a woman, u beta get laid before kongi kill u
Lwtmp...my ribs oooooooooooo..
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by pendo89(f): 12:48pm On Apr 08, 2012
Lagusta[b:
]Let me be frank nd serious wit u; d only thing i respect about my wife is dat i married her a virgin. [/b].
PEACE!!!

shocked Ok.NOTED!
Re: Yearnin For A Man's Touch by DSB(m): 12:53pm On Apr 08, 2012
Mekozoral: Gud mornin all, i'm a 28yrs old beautiful woman, devoted christian, gud job nd a virgin, but recently i've got a really big problem,when i get up early in d mornin 2get prepared 4work i get very Hot, it's nt like i read or watch sexual arousal books or movies cos my job takes all my time but i don't know why i feel dis way, i delibrately stayed of datin 4like 8yrs now so as 2 concentrate on my studies but while i was in sch neva had dis feelin why now? Even when i was in a relatnship yrs back wen i was 20yrs, i neva enjoyed d touching he'll beg nd beg b4 i manage 2giv him a kiss, but as i type dis now, i can't wait 4a man's touch, is dis normal, am i not sinning against God because it's not until u get intimate with a man b4 u commit fornicatn, thinking about it alone is a sin, i had 2come out with dis cos dis morning is worst 4me, God know if a man made an attempt 2touch me i'll fall, 4som1 like me now who has always hope 2present myself as a gift 4my man on my wedin night nd considerin my current predecament, pls my peeps if i acept to go out with d guy who has been on my neck for som months now, what strategy can i use so dat i don't sleep with him till my weddin night cos, i'm really havin a big struggle with my hormones, even though he his a perfect gentle guy, i'm scared of myself cos d way i feel lately, i hope i won't be d one 2beg him 2make love 2me, pls hw do i contol myself.Matured,Honest nd sincere advice, i'll take insults as part of d advice cos human think differntly. Thanks.

Your story is kinda similar to mine but with a little twist. I went for self pleasure but it almost destroyed me. Thank God I am now free. I'm 27 and having waited this long, am willing to push to the end. Remember, YOU CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS YOU. As you were advised, find some new hobbies. I now keep busy with Exercising, games, piano,listening to messages and gospel music. Always remember 1Cor 10:13. God be with you

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