Mekozoral: Gud mornin all, i'm a 28yrs old beautiful woman, devoted christian, gud job nd a virgin, but recently i've got a really big problem,when i get up early in d mornin 2get prepared 4work i get very Hot, it's nt like i read or watch sexual arousal books or movies cos my job takes all my time but i don't know why i feel dis way, i delibrately stayed of datin 4like 8yrs now so as 2 concentrate on my studies but while i was in sch neva had dis feelin why now? Even when i was in a relatnship yrs back wen i was 20yrs, i neva enjoyed d touching he'll beg nd beg b4 i manage 2giv him a kiss, but as i type dis now, i can't wait 4a man's touch, is dis normal, am i not sinning against God because it's not until u get intimate with a man b4 u commit fornicatn, thinking about it alone is a sin, i had 2come out with dis cos dis morning is worst 4me, God know if a man made an attempt 2touch me i'll fall, 4som1 like me now who has always hope 2present myself as a gift 4my man on my wedin night nd considerin my current predecament, pls my peeps if i acept to go out with d guy who has been on my neck for som months now, what strategy can i use so dat i don't sleep with him till my weddin night cos, i'm really havin a big struggle with my hormones, even though he his a perfect gentle guy, i'm scared of myself cos d way i feel lately, i hope i won't be d one 2beg him 2make love 2me, pls hw do i contol myself.Matured,Honest nd sincere advice, i'll take insults as part of d advice cos human think differntly. Thanks.

DID U SAY FOR 8YEARS NOW? MY DEAR YOU CAN'T CHEAT NATURE!!! YOU NEED TO HAVE A MAN MAKE MAD LOVE TO YOU AS SOON AS POSSIBLE ELSE ALL WHAT YOU FEAR WOULD SOON BECOME WHAT YOU LOVE TO DO THE MOST...BE IT A SIN OR NOT!

Winner 1: Text Mekozoral to this no 08175736919 so that we can talk.

Mekozoral: @ BALDMAN OMG all dis 4me! I don't know what to say really really short of words, i thought i've rounded up my replies but i have no choice out of my busy schedule 2say thank u, u even went as far as singing 4me, may Almighty God put a smile on ur face just as u did 2me aftanoon, u made me feel like a queen. Nd 2all oda's dat hav taken their time 2read my post, May God visit u dis week specially in jesus name. Thanks.

dokunbam: You are now a woman, u beta get laid before kongi kill u

baldman: At Poster: I took my time to read some of your previous posts. I recall reading about your job search, so I am really glad that you got a good job eventually. A lot of people have given their opinions here and I just want to add my bit. You really need to relax. God is on the throne, He has brought you this far and He is not known as one who abandons His projects.Your urge for a man's touch is perfectly normal, but feeding that demand of the flesh could be fatal. It can in fact mess things up for you. Sex complicates things, and for someone your age, who has been off the dating scene for years, you can bet with me that it could be a deal breaker. God has kept you this way for a reason, or you think you have been doing this all by your power? Virginity is a virtue but not the only virtue that makes a good woman/wife, its only worth the price you put on it, and seeing what you have been through, I advise you place a premium value on it, u ar a beautiful, brilliant, industrous, gainfully employed and God-fearing young woman, and like an icing on the cake u ar a virgin! It means a lot, trust me, u ar a rarity and God must have kept you this way for a purpose. Do not let this purpose be defeated. The waves of sexual urge can best be dealt with by focusing more on things of God. When those feelings come, put them to good use by passionately praying for your man to come( I think u have been doing that) trust me he will come and he deserves to meet you untouched, that is why God has been keeping u for him. I know that in the nearest future, u will post your testimony here, just like u did with your job.

Let me warn you ahead though, do not just go with the man that apppears to be him, or the more matured one ... spend this time getting a foreknowledge about your man from God, so that when he comes you will know it is him. Trust me, investing your time in asking God for His leadings on how to identify your man from the crowd of wolves that I am certain will be prowling ( hearing your story on Nairaland)is enough to help u get rid of the urge. I pray you will find courage anchored on God's grace to be able to wait for the God ordained my who will make a good woman of you in Jesus name ( Amen) and when the going is tough, remember that u ar not alone in this struggle, there are others too waiting, and u dont want to be the one that failed. I think u have suffered enough, u deserve all the bliss marriage can give, so keeping ur virginity and insisting on marrying the God ordained man are just ways of ensuring that you preserve your destiny. I love this song by the Infinity group -- Aye o le... especially this stanza

Bo wu ko pe ti ti iya aye e wa on bo wa dopin
a i mola eda, loun mu e da sa a ni yan o la
olorun ti seleriii oro baba ko ni ye
Ai ni gbagbo, loun mu eda ra a ro pin
bi okun nfo, ti osa n sa, otito wa laye
igbagbo ni orisun n oun gbo...



Aye o le fe ni to ni gbagbo pa ye o le

Winner 1: Use Rob for your private part it will pepper you and the urge will go try it now.

Why are you so dumb?

eyenCalabar: 've just gone through your story again with new findings. Honestly, u decided to stay a virgin for ur own self interest and not because u wanted to please God for not committing fornication "...4som1 like me now who has always hope 2present myself as a gift 4my man on my wedin night nd considerin my current predecament,..." but in Christianity, we have come to understand that selfishness is a sin and hence u've committed a sin in this direction already. But then, what is the assurance that u'll have a stained bed that night because 've actually disvirgined a girl before without any blood though she had a tight pusssy and the girl strongly insisted that she was a virgin.  must confess that  followed that girl for 3years without getting there until that fateful day. 've also gone through ur post and u are always proud of ur being a virgin at 28. With this alone,  can bet that u are not a virgin. And if at all you are, don't even tell your man, let him find that out himself. On that very night we are all looking up to, go with lubricant, if he tries to penetrate and your stuff resist, ask him to use the lubricant that you have not done it for a long time and fortunately for you by the time he succeeds pushing it in and start cruzing blood comes then tell him that time that you were a virgin and he'll be happy. But if you sharp your mouth and tell him you are a virgin and at the end the bed doesn't get stained, both your expectations and hubby's own would be cut so short and you may find yourself in a law court fighting to defend your claims and u may have just succeeded in inviting problem to your home that night using ur mouth. Be warned!!!

cugresources: don't u love playing computer games? it will help take off ur mind from the feelings. stop watching romantic or love films, concentrate on news channels like: CNN, Aljazeera, BBC, Geographical channel, etc, they will make u focus on global issues than on romance. if u don't want to have sex now don't go on a date, cos it will surely happen; forget how much good or innocent guys will come claiming here, its a big lie! the guy will surely bleep u and especially if he notices this your present mood which he must. So to say, just stay away from dates, but if u must go on a date, make it lunch dates and let it end in the afternoon and don't go to his house or allow him to visit u either. stop reading romance novels or books for now and read career books and newspapers. try and make more female friends of similar status and build passion hanging out with them. but all the same, men no longer attach much value to virginity now unlike before. but I am not saying you should allow yourself to be devirgined since u are enjoying the idea already. Goodluck in what u chose.

cugresources: don't u love playing computer games? it will help take off ur mind from the feelings. stop watching romantic or love films, concentrate on news channels like: CNN, Aljazeera, BBC, Geographical channel, etc, they will make u focus on global issues than on romance. if u don't want to have sex now don't go on a date, cos it will surely happen; forget how much good or innocent guys will come claiming here, its a big lie! the guy will surely bleep u and especially if he notices this your present mood which he must. So to say, just stay away from dates, but if u must go on a date, make it lunch dates and let it end in the afternoon and don't go to his house or allow him to visit u either. stop reading romance novels or books for now and read career books and newspapers. try and make more female friends of similar status and build passion hanging out with them. but all the same, men no longer attach much value to virginity now unlike before. but I am not saying you should allow yourself to be devirgined since u are enjoying the idea already. Goodluck in what u chose.