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Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jun 14, 2012
Another confusion from having to take a 2000-year old book seriously. What do you seek to achieve when you say god is a man or a woman, or when you try to stay within the limits logic affords you and claim god has no sex? Being religious and taking the bible seriously is a task no valid logic can justify, yet many a believer persists in these methods. undecided
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jun 14, 2012
queensmith:

Thats a very very good question, was talking about this yesterday. In one of Karl Marx's books (or the other dude i forget) he talks about how in Africa god was was an overweight woman. When the europeans travelled through africa and noticed this they felt insulted and before you know it god now looks like a french whitehaired man. It's weird. I remember thinking that casting morgan freeman as 'god' in the movie bruce almighty was weird, and it's obvious to me now that that was the whole point.
Why is god envisioned as a european white man instead of a black woman? Since the middle class white man is at the top of the social hierarchical scale it's very possible that the whole idea of god is just an imaginative form of our real lives. An exaggeration of current realities. The book was pretty interesting!
Without doubt, the idea of god is an expansion of our immediate inclinations
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jun 14, 2012
michelin89: I don't believe in opening people's eye to the evil of anything. Religion or the lack of it is a very personal thing. The same way you don't go around questioning people about their sexuality, is the same way we should respect the religious choice of one another.

The desire to uniform people to ourselves is what is generating so much hatred and rivalry in the world today. Should we learn to exploit our differences instead of using them as an excuse to fight each other, this world would be a better place to live.

Differences are not always a minus so much that people can love themselves because of their differences like they can love themselves because of their similarities.
Following your statements, then it's irrelevant attempting to expose Islamic militants to the evils of their actions, right? Religion can indeed be as destructive as a suicide bombing. And to add, it could as well be as liberating or fulfilling. The deal, though, is that both are grounded in wanton reverie.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Goldieluks: 9:14pm On Jun 14, 2012
queensmith:

Thats a very very good question, was talking about this yesterday. In one of Karl Marx's books (or the other dude i forget) he talks about how in Africa god was was an overweight woman. When the europeans travelled through africa and noticed this they felt insulted and before you know it god now looks like a french whitehaired man. It's weird. I remember thinking that casting morgan freeman as 'god' in the movie bruce almighty was weird, and it's obvious to me now that that was the whole point.
Why is god envisioned as a european white man instead of a black woman? Since the middle class white man is at the top of the social hierarchical scale it's very possible that the whole idea of god is just an imaginative form of our real lives. An exaggeration of current realities. The book was pretty interesting!


So what you are saying in a nut shell is that, you don't believe in the existence of God,
because you read a karl Marx book?
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by queensmith: 9:15pm On Jun 14, 2012
sauer:
Without doubt, the idea of god is an expansion of our immediate inclinations

opiate of the masses they called it!
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jun 14, 2012
shymmex:

It was a typo, read the comment I posted to emofine2..

God created 'us' in his image, according to the Bible (I believe you're a christian) - and if that's to be believed, then God has to be feminine.. Since men can only come from women - not the other way round.. I use 'She' or 'It' for God - not 'He' - just like we do for countries, and continents.


you wrote it correctly. goldie quoted you and changed it to he, thus my question.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jun 14, 2012
Goldieluks:


So what you are saying in a nut shell is that, you don't believe in the existence of God,
because you read a karl Marx book?
Of course, that's not what she's saying! grin Nevertheless, that's not totally impossible. It's on record that one book can change someone's life. And I'd argue you probably have no idea what good Karl Marx and his books have done to this world
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Goldieluks: 9:19pm On Jun 14, 2012
sauer: Another confusion from having to take a 2000-year old book seriously. What do you seek to achieve when you say god is a man or a woman, or when you try to stay within the limits logic affords you and claim god has no sex? Being religious and taking the bible seriously is a task no valid logic can justify, yet many a believer persists in these methods. undecided

You don't have a right to criticize Christianity or the Bible.
stick to your atheist beliefs. No one is going to take that away from you.
But do not condemn someone else's belief, because they believe in God.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by queensmith: 9:19pm On Jun 14, 2012
sauer: Another confusion from having to take a 2000-year old book seriously. What do you seek to achieve when you say god is a man or a woman, or when you try to stay within the limits logic affords you and claim god has no sex? Being religious and taking the bible seriously is a task no valid logic can justify, yet many a believer persists in these methods. undecided

is this not the problem with hard core religous people and traditionalists. None of their claims follow logical thought, and they NEVER know how to justify it. They'll just start quoting the bible and bigoted proverbs as if it makes what they're saying anymore reasonable. I tire!
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Goldieluks: 9:22pm On Jun 14, 2012
sauer:
Of course, that's not what she's saying! grin Nevertheless, that's not totally impossible. It's on record that one book can change someone's life. And I'd argue you probably have no idea what good Karl Marx and his books have done to this world


What good has he done to your world? School me.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by queensmith: 9:27pm On Jun 14, 2012
Goldieluks:


So what you are saying in a nut shell is that, you don't believe in the existence of God,
because you read a karl Marx book?

I have to admit reading the book absolutely blew my mind! Everything in life is based on the human struggle for hierarchy, and the systems in place have only ever served to benefit the same set of people. No matter how you look at it you always end up worshipping 'the white man' one way or another.

Embracing Christianity is one of them, the book gave me the push. Face it, those of us that are christians can't give any justifiable reason for beleiving in God and Christ. We just do. We can't explain it (i can't obtain it! lol). Alot of us have just been conditioned to think praying to some deity is going to solve all our problems. It's complex and interesting no doubt.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jun 14, 2012
Goldieluks:

You don't have a right to criticize Christianity or the Bible.
stick to your atheist beliefs. No one is going to take that away from you.
But do not condemn someone else's belief, because they believe in God.
Well, I sure will criticize whatever warrants it; jonathan, the Nigerian government, Nigerian pastors and churches, the bible, etc. They all have one thing in common: they all aren't helping Nigeria! angry
There is probably nothing wrong in believing in god as christians would have us do. So, one could at least afford them that. However, there is everything wrong and criminal about believing that those who aren't in the same shoes as you will end up in some imaginary "lake of fire".
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jun 14, 2012
I'm a big fan of Karl Marx, but I'll also call myself a pseud-marxist.. Yeah, there are a lot of good stuffs about his philosophies that most people need to emulate - but when it comes to religion, and spirituality, I disagree with him..

I just don't believe an African should embrace Eurocentric (Christianity and Atheism), nor Arabcentric (Islam) belief system.. If we're to dig deep enough, everything they gave back to us - were plagiarized versions of what we already had on our continent - thousands of years before these two races of people became relevant in the world... Europeans (6,000yrs ago) and Arabs (less than 3,000yrs ago).

I'm privileged to have the "Book of the Dead", where most of what is in the Bible and Qu'ran originally came from - and I can gladly say religion is a control mechanism ( or opiate of the masses like Karl Marx put it)...

Atheism is another form of control derived from the ancient Egyptian cosmology concept - that's why atheism, and Abrahamaic religions would always be the same to me.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Jun 14, 2012
queensmith:

I have to admit reading the book absolutely blew my mind! Everything in life is based on the human struggle for hierarchy, and the systems in place have only ever served to benefit the same set of people. No matter how you look at it you always end up worshipping 'the white man' one way or another.

Embracing Christianity is one of them, the book gave me the push. Face it, those of us that are christians can't give any justifiable reason for beleiving in God and Christ. We just do. We can't explain it (i can't obtain it! lol). Alot of us have just been conditioned to think praying to some deity is going to solve all our problems. It's complex and interesting no doubt.

Good point. This is the chief reason children simply follow the religions of their parents. It's almost an innate action. It bothers me seriously that these children don't even stop for a minute to examine in detail exactly what is being handed to them. The blindness, the follow-follow, the herd mentality, the conformity; all these just stink. Didn't they ever ask questions in class? Yet, if asked, they'd claim they have arrived at their practices by themselves and needed no prodding from their parents. yeah, right!
I hope your book really isn't the communist manifesto
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jun 14, 2012
shymmex: I'm a big fan of Karl Marx, but I'll also call myself a pseud-marxist.. Yeah, there are a lot of good stuffs about his philosophies that most people need to emulate - but when it comes to religion, and spirituality, I disagree with him..

I just don't believe an African should embrace Eurocentric (Christianity and Atheism), nor Arabcentric (Islam) belief system.. If we're to dig deep enough, everything they gave back to us - were plagiarized versions of what we already had on our continent - thousands of years before these two races of people became relevant in the world... Europeans (6,000yrs ago) and Arabs (less than 3,000yrs ago).

I'm privileged to have the "Book of the Dead", where most of what is in the Bible and Qu'ran originally came from - and I can gladly say religion is a control mechanism ( or opiate of the masses like Karl Marx put it)...

Atheism is another form of control derived from the ancient Egyptian cosmology concept - that's why atheism, and Abrahamaic religions would always be the same to me.


atheism exists in every culture that has elements of spirituality. had we stuck to our traditional religions, do you think we all would be followers?
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jun 14, 2012
queensmith:

I have to admit reading the book absolutely blew my mind! Everything in life is based on the human struggle for hierarchy, and the systems in place have only ever served to benefit the same set of people. No matter how you look at it you always end up worshipping 'the white man' one way or another.

Embracing Christianity is one of them, the book gave me the push. Face it, those of us that are christians can't give any justifiable reason for beleiving in God and Christ. We just do. We can't explain it (i can't obtain it! lol). Alot of us have just been conditioned to think praying to some deity is going to solve all our problems. It's complex and interesting no doubt.

@the bolded part

If you're to rid yourself off that - embrace your own inborn spirituality.. We Africans are spiritual beings, but we've been indoctrinated with so much thrash - that we've lost our sense of reasoning...

That's why Africa is as messed up as it is... Religion is our biggest problem - if we can rid ourselves off religion, and embrace our inborn African spirituality - we will find our way in the world again..

Plz, read about the council of Nicea 325A.D - that was the genesis of everything.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Goldieluks: 9:34pm On Jun 14, 2012
queensmith:

I have to admit reading the book absolutely blew my mind! Everything in life is based on the human struggle for hierarchy, and the systems in place have only ever served to benefit the same set of people. No matter how you look at it you always end up worshipping 'the white man' one way or another.

Embracing Christianity is one of them, the book gave me the push. Face it, those of us that are christians can't give any justifiable reason for beleiving in God and Christ. We just do. We can't explain it (i can't obtain it! lol). Alot of us have just been conditioned to think praying to some deity is going to solve all our problems. It's complex and interesting no doubt.


If praying does not solve your problems, what does?
It is a two way thing my dear, it is either one believe in God or the devil.
You have to choose one.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jun 14, 2012
michelin89:
atheism exists in every culture that has elements of spirituality. had we stuck to our traditional religions, do you think we all would be followers?

How does atheism have elements of spirituality?

I'm lost - can you explain further?
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jun 14, 2012
I will really love to be friends with an Atheist. Specifically a well-read one but they seem to snob me maybe because they think I am not a rational/intelligent person. Oh well.
There is even this atheist on NL that I have been stalking eyeing for sometime now. grin.
But I can't marry one.
I can go on a date with, be friends with, have outings with, but no marriage.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Goldieluks: 9:36pm On Jun 14, 2012
sauer:
Well, I sure will criticize whatever warrants it; jonathan, the Nigerian government, Nigerian pastors and churches, the bible, etc. They all have one thing in common: they all aren't helping Nigeria! angry
There is probably nothing wrong in believing in god as christians would have us do. So, one could at least afford them that. However, there is everything wrong and criminal about believing that those who aren't in the same shoes as you will end up in some imaginary "lake of fire".

suit yourself.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Areaboy2(m): 9:37pm On Jun 14, 2012
fellis: I will really love to be friends with an Atheist. Specifically a well-read one but they seem to snob me maybe because they think I am not a rational/intelligent person. Oh well.
There is even this atheist on NL that I have been stalking eyeing for sometime now. grin.
But I can't marry one.
I can go on a date with, be friends with, have outings with, but no marriage.

lol. stalk me!! hahahaha.

well, If you throw it in their face that you are right and they are wrong (when it is clear you are actually wrong tongue), they'll blow u off like that.

Keep an open mind for a discussion and voila!!!!
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jun 14, 2012
shymmex: I'm a big fan of Karl Marx, but I'll also call myself a pseud-marxist.. Yeah, there are a lot of good stuffs about his philosophies that most people need to emulate - but when it comes to religion, and spirituality, I disagree with him..

I just don't believe an African should embrace Eurocentric (Christianity and Atheism), nor Arabcentric (Islam) belief system.. If we're to dig deep enough, everything they gave back to us - were plagiarized versions of what we already had on our continent - thousands of years before these two races of people became relevant in the world... Europeans (6,000yrs ago) and Arabs (less than 3,000yrs ago).

I'm privileged to have the "Book of the Dead", where most of what is in the Bible and Qu'ran originally came from - and I can gladly say religion is a control mechanism ( or opiate of the masses like Karl Marx put it)...

Atheism is another form of control derived from the ancient Egyptian cosmology concept - that's why atheism, and Abrahamaic religions would always be the same to me.
This is absolutely pointless. Atheism derived from ancient Egyptian cosmology concept? WTF? perhaps you could care to explain. The strands of atheism, of a rebellion against any form of established religion (for that's what atheism is) didn't come out until moments before the French revolution. While popular literature may have you believe what you want, atheism isn't merely the lack of belief in a god, rather it is characterised by a silent rebellion against established religion. Plus, ancient societies have always leaned in some way on spiritual deities for guidance and consultation. Therefore, I'd be incredibly surprised to find any records of your so-called cosmology concept.
It remains true that Christianity and Islam are imported religions with absolutely no similarities with then established African religions. These two world religions have their roots in a society's history and should as a result carry no similarity with another society's values and culture.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jun 14, 2012
Goldieluks:


If praying does not solve your problems, what does?
It is a two way thing my dear, it is either one believe in God or the devil.
You have to choose one.


Haba madam take am easy! XD
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Goldieluks: 9:39pm On Jun 14, 2012
michelin89:


Haba madam take am easy! XD

loool, but na true now...
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Areaboy2(m): 9:41pm On Jun 14, 2012
Goldieluks:


If praying does not solve your problems, what does?
It is a two way thing my dear, it is either one believe in God or the devil.
You have to choose one.


Sadly, you have given yourself that option. To create a God, you must have an enemy for him to battle. thats y they go hand in hand.

on the other hand when you dont believe, you don't have a devil to be worried about.
shikena
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by queensmith: 9:43pm On Jun 14, 2012
sauer:
Good point. This is the chief reason why children simply follow the religions of their parents. It's almost an innate action. It bothers me seriously that these children don't even stop for a minute and examine in detail exactly what is being handed to them. The blindness, the follow-follow, the herd mentality, the conformity; all these just stink. Didn't they ever ask questions in class? Yet, if asked, they'd claim they have arrived at their practices by themselves and needed no prodding from their parents. yeah, right!
I hope your book really isn't the communist manifesto

god! (or whatever you believe in lol) bless you!
Thats what i've always said, growing up i've wanted to do many things, and the parents will just dismiss it sayin 'no its not good' 'erm why is it not good' 'dont ask me questions' and thats typically the way things are especially back home. Nobody is asking any questions, women don't raise their eyebrows when they are told to 'submit' they just do! People are told they must behave a certain way, nobody says 'what for' they just do! and these people have no have no sense of self. It's very very obvious here on this website, the herd mentality is too much. Nobody seems to want to apply logic to anything (especially if it's to do with religion or tradition) and questioning their beleifs is like you've killed their families!

Even if you are religous you still need to ask questions, you need to consult the bible for yourself and try to understand what the pov of the writer is, whether it applies, whether it's personal. Lets not forget it was human beings like ourselves that wrote the Bible. None of them were perfect.

o and i'm not sure- it was a UCL professors note on Karl Marx's writings, i'll dig the book up somewhere. But I think it's based mostly on the communist manifesto. It also had some of the things he wrote when he was a teen. The book was brilliant, his name is jonathan something i'll find him.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Jun 14, 2012
Ops.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jun 14, 2012
sauer:
This is absolutely pointless. Atheism derived from ancient Egyptian cosmology concept? WTF? perhaps you could care to explain. The strands of atheism, of a rebellion against any form of established religion (for that's what atheism is) didn't come out until moments before the French revolution.

Atheism was derived from the Egyptian Osiris/Isis/Horus star cosmology, just as the story of Jesus Christ.. The only thing is that the Atheists don't believe in God but the universe - and Christians believe in Jesus, and the three in one (God of the father, son, and the holy spirit).

It remains true that Christianity and Islam are imported religions with absolutely no similarities with then established African religions. These two world religions have their roots in a society's history and should as a result carry no similarity with another society's values and culture.

You're a funny, chap!!

Where did the story of Jesus come from? And how come almost everything in both the Qu'ran and Bible are in hieroglyphics on the pyramids in Egypt?
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jun 14, 2012
Area_boy:

lol. stalk me!! hahahaha.

well, If you throw it in their face that you are right and they are wrong (when it is clear you are actually wrong tongue), they'll blow u off like that.

Keep an open mind for a discussion and voila!!!!
lol, Area boy you're not the one. Or maybe you're him with another username. . .
And no, I haven't claimed to be right if I am actually wrong when when we argue. If I am wrong I just abandon the topic instead of claiming to be right,
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jun 14, 2012
queensmith:

It's very very obvious here on this website, the herd mentality is too much. Nobody seems to want to apply logic to anything (especially if it's to do with religion or tradition) and questioning their beleifs is like you've killed their families!

Even if you are religous you still need to ask questions, you need to consult the bible for yourself and try to understand what the pov of the writer is, whether it applies, whether it's personal. Lets not forget it was human beings like ourselves that wrote the Bible. None of them were perfect.
Tell me about it. Sht is so annoying.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Goldieluks: 9:51pm On Jun 14, 2012
Area_boy:


Sadly, you have given yourself that option. To create a God, you must have an enemy for him to battle. thats y they go hand in hand.

on the other hand when you dont believe, you don't have a devil to be worried about.
shikena



There is nothing sad about it. Funny enough some people who claim there is no God,
are the ones who constantly uses words like ''my god, jesus, for god sakes''
i wonder why they use the name of God in vain, and still claim He does not exist. Been an atheist is an act of
denial and open-eyed ignorance.
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Areaboy2(m): 9:52pm On Jun 14, 2012
lol.. i'm just teasing. haven't been on nairaland in ages for it to be me.

But yea. its all about keeping an open mind and discussing about stuff. Some people are even afraid to ask any question regarding their faith. In my opinion that is just sad



@Goldie

Well you see my dear, its all about expression and how people choose to use it.

Nothing expresses surprise more than.. JESUS CHRIST!!!
nothing expresses frustration more than.. Jesus Mary and Joseph
....................... Oh my God!!

for me I just use... F.F.S. undecided

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