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Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
I was born a christian, but still technically a christian because of my parents - and still technically a muslim due of my family background.. But these two religions have to be the most sexist religions in the world.. Why God the father, the son, and the holy spirit? What about the woman? Atleast Egyptians had ISIS!! |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
shymmex: I have never said anything like that. You said Theism/Atheism are creations and importations of the white man and without colonization, Africans would still have a bond with their natural spirituality. I'm telling you that spirituality is at the basis of whatever religious belief. Be it monotheism or polytheism as it used to be in Africa before the white man arrived, it's just as being spiritual, where there is a god or gods who has control over all natural elements and we sort of connect our spiritual side with these elements to experience a communion with this supernatural force. I don't even understand why you keep distinguishing spirituality from religion like they didn't have anything in common, when one is just a specific sphere of the other. Spirituality is the very foundation of any religion. Back to the issue of Atheism being the creation of the white man, this is totally false. Atheism is not just a refusal of religion, it's the refusal of whatever belief that there is some sort of spiritualism or extraordinary or extrahuman force supposedly in control of our lives. Hadn't the white man come to Africa and taught his ways, Africa may today still be practising her traditional religions or deism, but there would still be those people who wouldn't take part in this worship and they would be atheists, called maybe in a different manner. For whatever thing that exists, there is always its opposite that creates a contrasting sphere. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by queensmith: 9:58pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
shymmex: I was born a christian, but still technically a christian because of my parents - and still technically a muslim due of my family background.. don't worry yourself. If it wasnt your religion it will be your culture. They've all found thier ways to encourage misogynism one way or the other. Makes me sick. Why was God even refered to as 'He' at all- why wasn't God described as 'The Holiness' abi? The Holiness rested on the 7th day sounds absolutely fine to me! The Holy Book needs a re-vamp! |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
shymmex: Do you even know the meaning of the word Atheism? It's composed of two words: a- (no/negation) theism (belief in the supernatural. Wetin be universe again? I wonder why believers always want to force a belief on people, because to them it's just illogical for someone to not believe in something. If you don't like red, then you must like blue. Ever thought someone might not just give a damn about colours? Must everybody have a different version of anything you have? Why do you think yours is a universal idea, everybody must conform too in different models (just to cite Plato)? |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
michelin89: That's where most people get the African form of spirituality twisted.. I can't really speak of other African tribes, but I can speak of my Yoruba tribe (based on what I know). Yes, they had god/gods, but these lesser 'gods' were just a form of appreciation to the supreme being (Eledumare/Oluwa/Olorun) for giving them these things.. All the lesser gods in Yoruba spirituality are actually things that exist physically.. Oya (river niger), Ogun (iron), Sango (thunder) etc.. They don't go through these natural elements to experience a communion with the supernatural force - rather, they do it as a form of appreciation to the supernatural force. I'm yet to see an IFA priest talk about any of these other lesser element - but we can agree to disagree on that. I don't even understand why you keep distinguishing spirituality from religion like they didn't have anything in common, when one is just a specific sphere of the other. Spirituality is the very foundation of any religion. That was why I specifically mentioned the IFA philosophy in my initial post.. The IFA philosophy has nothing to do with religion - but everything to do with connecting the physical with the supernatural being, which IFA believes lives inside us.. Back to the issue of Atheism being the creation of the white man, this is totally false. Atheism is not just a refusal of religion, it's the refusal of whatever belief that there is some sort of spiritualism or extraordinary or extrahuman force supposedly in control of our lives. Hadn't the white man come to Africa and taught his ways, Africa may today still be practising her traditional religions or deism, but there would still be those people who wouldn't take part in this worship and they would be atheists, called maybe in a different manner. Where did atheism thought process originate from? Atheism itself is also another form of religion but most atheists are just living in denial. Atheism will be defined in the contemporary western sense: not just the lack of belief in a god, but the assertion about the non-existence of any gods, spirits, or divine or supernatural beings. [size=14pt]Atheists in this sense are metaphysical naturalists, and as will be shown, they DO follow a religion[/size]. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
So you say and I'll let the sleeping dog lie. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Areaboy2(m): 10:25pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
@ Shymmex You see the problem is, your religionist mind cant understand how possible it is for one to be void of religion so you brand us with some form of religion. I guess that is your ill attempt at a conspiracy theory!! fail |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Area_boy: @ Shymmex Atheism will always be a religion to me, since you guys believe in the big b.ang theory - but not the supernatural being.. You guys also do rituals by celebrating birthdays, weddings, etc. and that's another form of religion.. You guys still believe in something - but most of you are in denial. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:29pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
God pls let this dicussion go on, i'm having too much fun! |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Please my dear atheists - do you believe/celebrate the following? - Do you believe in the big b.ang theory, and star cosmology? - Do you celebrate birthdays, weddings, etc..? Please answer my questions! |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Atheism to me is just like a cult, just as scientology is - but 'cult' is subjective depending on how you look at it. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
michelin89: The bolded part shows that atheism is just another 'model' of religion... You don't believe in God, but you believe in the big b.ang theory and darwinism - and that's also a belief system... And since atheists celebrate birthdays, weddings, etc.. they also perform rituals - and that's more reason why atheism is a religion in denial.. I'm a realist, and I believe in the freedom of religion, and belief system - but I don't like when people are in denial... Atheism is another Eurocentric belief system created to enslave the African mind, period. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Areaboy2(m): 10:43pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
shymmex: Please my dear atheists - do you believe/celebrate the following? what has the celebration of a significant moment in a persons life got to do with their belief or religion?? I dont see the premise of your argument here or the point you are trying to raise . Secondly we dont "believe in" the big b@ng(fcking filter I hate this forum) theory, Learn to move your mind away from the term "believe in". it is by far the most reasonable answer to where the universe came from and it beats every thing your bible says. God created everything and put two people on it to breed and populate it. Which of the two sounds more atrocious?? |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Areaboy2(m): 10:44pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
shymmex: Atheism to me is just like a cult, just as scientology is - but 'cult' is subjective depending on how you look at it. Scientology believe aliens put us here LOL.. that's even worse than the Adam and eve story!! LMAO Totally different from an atheists view |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Dear atheists and religious fanatics, please read my signature - and emancipate yourself from mental slavery.. My journey start three years ago, and I think I'm a better person right now mentally - than I was three years ago (still a long journey, though).. We Africans are naturally spiritual beings, and God lives inside us all. God/Eledumare/Olorun/Oluwa will helps us all! I'm out for a couple of hours! |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 14, 2012 |
Area_boy: You don't believe in the big b.ang, yet every atheist I know tell me about big ba.ng and darwinism as the alternative to God. Why can't atheist just lead normal lives - and not believe in any damn thing, or just say nothing, huh? And celebrating birthdays show you actually believe in creation (either by big ban.g or God) - which is technically a ritual, to thank whatever you believe in out of the two, that you're alive and healthy.. That's common logic.. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by manmustwac(m): 12:11am On Jun 15, 2012 |
cowgurl:Cowgirl every relationship is different just because yours happen to be like a bed of roses coz you just happened to be with a cowboy that has the qualities that you need dose not necessarily mean that only Christians enjoy good relationships. Muslims marry Muslims they have good relationships Hindus marry Hindus they have good relationships. Muslims marry Christians they have good relationships. Athiests marry Christians they have good relationships. So good relationships are not necessarily based on whether your partner is Christian or not because its not only you guys who enjoy good relationships. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 12:48am On Jun 15, 2012 |
Back to the topic! Basically, I won't mind marrying an atheist - I find them to be highly intelligent, open-minded, and interesting.. Just as I find most westernized black people (black diaspora, and highly educated Nigerians like Wole Soyinka) who practice African spirituality to be highly intelligent, brilliant, open-minded, and intriguing. Unlike people of Abrahamic faiths, who just have a linear thought process - and anything that doesn't conform to that, is believed to be of the 'devil'. Devil itself is subjective - just as I believe 'hell' don't exist (but that's a subject for another day). Atheists are fascinating people - but they have to accept that their 'belief system' is a form of religion on steroids. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 12:51am On Jun 15, 2012 |
^^i hope u are not inferring that Christians are not intelligent, open-minded, and intriguing. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by cowgurl: 12:56am On Jun 15, 2012 |
manmustwac: Cowgirl every relationship is different just because yours happen to be like a bed of roses coz you just happened to be with a cowboy that has the qualities that you need dose not necessarily mean that only Christians enjoy good relationships. Muslims marry Muslims they have good relationships Hindus marry Hindus they have good relationships. Muslims marry Christians they have good relationships. Athiests marry Christians they have good relationships. So good relationships are not necessarily based on whether your partner is Christian or not because its not only you guys who enjoy good relationships. Oh no! I didn't imply any of that. I stick with whatever works for me and hold no grudge against anyone who does same as long as it works for them. Besides, your post was all abot the Christendom, thus my response to prove you otherwise. Am ME, can't be anyone else. So it's my prerogative to choose whatever works for me and stand by it unwaveringly! |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 12:57am On Jun 15, 2012 |
@Shollypopz I'm yet to meet an intelligent, open-minded, and intriguing 'born again'(how can you be born again, when you should be growing in God? ) - but I've met a few decent church goers who have those qualities. Born again Christians take their religion overly serious - and I can't stand narrow-minded people. If you're not with them - you're automatically the 'devil' - and a candidate for 'hell', which don't exist in the first place. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 1:01am On Jun 15, 2012 |
^^lol, i do not mean to sound conceited; But you've met me, now change that mindset. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 1:07am On Jun 15, 2012 |
^^^Are you a 'born again' Christian? |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by cowgurl: 1:11am On Jun 15, 2012 |
shymmex: but I do agree with you on the bolded. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 1:12am On Jun 15, 2012 |
^^^Hope you ain't trying to practice reversed psychology on me tonight, ms psychologist? |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by cowgurl: 1:37am On Jun 15, 2012 |
Nah! You acted alright! |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by LogicMind: 5:46am On Jun 15, 2012 |
Shollypopz: Haha. I believe a Mr Intelligence would do you a lot of good. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 8:22am On Jun 15, 2012 |
shymmex:I've read this and your subsequent comments on atheism. To me, you'd appear not so knowledgeable on atheism and stuff. No, not all atheists believe in the big b.ang. Plus, atheism was certainly not derived from any Egyptian god combination. Some atheists are in fact totally opposed to any form of religious representations whatsoever; it never makes any sense nor solve any problems. There might have indeed been a couple of atheists among the earliest Egyptians, but one can be rest assured their beliefs never stemmed from any cosmological nonsense. If it did, then they won't be atheists, but mere religionists of some other form. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 8:24am On Jun 15, 2012 |
shymmex:There are millions of atheists who don't believe any damn thing and just live their lives like it has an end to it! |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 8:30am On Jun 15, 2012 |
queensmith: the herd mentality is a pervasive thing among Nigerians. Though going with people, irrespective of what their actions are, is a human thing, Nigerians have taken this to a whole new dimension. I wonder what book that is. Am suddenly curious. Anywyz, if there is anyone reading this who was interested in emancipating themselves from the weird beliefs circulating in the country, Sophie's World is a really good book to check out. It'll show you how the world is really just a simple progression from Socrates to the Internet. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Goldieluks: 8:33am On Jun 15, 2012 |
shymmex: Back to the topic! That is where you go wrong dear. People think that intelligence attained from vast knowledge of studying human theories, makes them a complete being. But that is not always the case,because the type of intelligence we humans should be aiming at, is that of understanding and knowing the Bible at our finger tips, because on the day of judgement God will not be interested in your worldy knowledge, by asking (my son/daughter how many chapters of karl max's/sigmund freud/mark johnson's book did you study. Focus would be on how you understood the Bible and applied it to your everyday life. |
Re: Will You Marry An Atheist? by Nobody: 8:40am On Jun 15, 2012 |
Goldieluks:incredibly ludicrous! |
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